I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
No its not wuss boy behaviour. If you definitly don't want to come over as wuss boy just think of something that puts you in control like AC/DC's line. If you want her to stay but you act indifferent and just say "bye" that is wuss boy behaviour because you are not going after what you want at the very least say "I enjoyed talking we should meet up some time... whats your number?"
Agree with a girl when in your mind you agree with her. Disagree with a girl when in your mind you disagree with her. AFCs agree with a girl even when they're mind disagrees if you know what I mean.
Wouldn't that make more sense. If she's leaving the party, she obviously doesn't wanna be there anymore so even if she stayed a little while longer, she wouldn't have as much fun. Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.