"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When a girl is chasing you big time...

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When a girl is chasing you and you've already banged her three times what do you do next? She says she's horny all the time and always in the mood for sex. I basically got to this point by doing almost nothing and acting like I don't give a fvck (which was my plan). Now that I've bedded her 3 times is the playing ground even and I should be open/initiate contact with her more etc. Or should I just play it cool like I've been doing which is basically bang her then disappear for a few days to a week and repeat, be unavailable, let her initiate contact 75% of the time, etc. I don't think she's looking for a serious relationship either, but it's only been under 2 weeks so who knows. I don't want to chase her away by becoming too invested but I also don't want her to lose interest by becoming too cold/serious.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GettinMyMindRight said:
I'd keep doing what you're doing. If she wants something more, she'll be the one to initiate that conversation.

I say this because I JUST went through a similar sitch. She was coming at me like a ton of Bricks. The second I reciprocated her feelings, she bolted.

You're doing fine. Just dont give in to that inner Beta.
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Thats what I think too because I also had this happen in the past. I was just wondering maybe this time is different but you're probably right I should just stick with what's working.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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