"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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When a Girl Ignored you...

kizza

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**Title meant to be 'When a girl ignores you'

So I know you guys are just there thinking: when a girl stops talking to you, it means she's not attracted anymore. And I agree with this, but I still have a problem, so i'll explain.

I met this girl, we were chatting loads over the net etc. She seemed pretty into me. We went out together once. Then suddenly we stop talking. She's never online/talking to me anymore, so I guessed she was no longer interested and I just messed up.

Oneitis kicked in.

Now I'm guessing the best move here was to move on, which I'm in the process of doing. But I still want this girl. We are still gonna meet at a club (not nightclub, language learning) every saturday and I'm afraid it'll just be awkward.

So instead of moving on. What would you guys do to a girl who ignores you, but used to be interested - and if you are still interested in her?

Is it worth the effort?

Thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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frisco

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are there going to be other girls at this club event thing if so use your attraction skills on them for a while build up you social and reproductive. value then try to reopen her if shes still cold then forget about it theres nothing you can do and move on

PS. stop using the net to talk to girls if you really liked this girl you should of built some phone game about once a week with her and ignored her on the net. Net game is No game in my book a good way to talk at first but you already met up with her did you not get her number? to have an active relationship with anyone you need phone game to an extent.
 

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there was some phone game, not loads but some. and yes there will be a few other girls, so i'll try some game on them - in fact i've been thinking about this one and about trying it on the best friend of the girl im interested in :p
 

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right mindset but remember never limit yourself to just one female, part of attraction is a girl knowing your preselected by other females. Also befriend some guys in there and show your a leader of men to your target if your showing your preselected by the females then guys will follow your lead cause you have something to offer and these guys offer you social value to your target also
its just like a cycle dig. not sure what level you think your at but hope this helps you out alil bro
 

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frisco said:
right mindset but remember never limit yourself to just one female, part of attraction is a girl knowing your preselected by other females. Also befriend some guys in there and show your a leader of men to your target if your showing your preselected by the females then guys will follow your lead cause you have something to offer and these guys offer you social value to your target also
its just like a cycle dig. not sure what level you think your at but hope this helps you out alil bro
Great advice. Couldn't have said it better myself
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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