"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When a Girl Goes From 'In A Relationship' to 'It's Complicated' on the Facebook

Juan_Man

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Does that mean she's about to dump her man?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Now is the time to hang out with her... call her up and treat her to something fun. She'll forget about the guy who's causing her stress and drama and think of you who's adding fun into her life.
 

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What if you only talk to her on occasion for school-related purposes ("Did Mr. X change the reading assignment?") but she knows you are attracted to her (i.e. regular eye contact)?
 

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I would never mess with a girl who doesn't answer either Yes or No when asked if she's got a boyfriend or anything. All this "it's complicated", kind of sort of stuff is just BS.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Relationships always "get complicated". If a girl dumped her guy and went to suck off some other dude every time a relationship got "complicated", there wouldn't be any relationships.

That said, the whole act of going on some social networking site and advertising that your relationship is experiencing problems screams of attention whoring and immaturity to me. If I had a girlfriend who did that all the time, I'd tell her to knock it the f*ck off and keep our problems personal, or get lost.
 
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