When a girl gets moody

[brad67]

My girlfriend randomly goes from absolutely loving me and being cool and talkative, to all of a sudden not talking to me and showing me no affection at all, even though we still walk and do things together. I ask her whats wrong and she just says "nothing!" and gets angry with me.

It doesnt happen that often, but Im wondering what you think the best idea for handling it is. Should I give her some space and not call her or talk to her online or text her or whatever, or should I try to be neutral and let her have her space?

I think the problem might be the fact that she has seasonal depression.. if this helps

Any advice would be great

 

[Julian]

I usually just act like nothings wrong, continue on with whatever is going on, crack a joke, do a russian dance, eat.

If i did something wrong i will know i did, if she is being a stupid ***** for no reason then its whatever to me.

 

[Kaine]

This is situational and in my experience you should treat this as a sh1t test.

Last time this happened was before our date had even started I told her that she looked like she was feeling grumpy and that I can take her straight home if that's the case

She started getting affectionate and confessed that something I had done had annoyed her, I brushed it off as been unreasonably trivial and she was right as rain and for the rest of the night through to the morning

If she is just been a princess to get her way then you just need to ignore it. She will know she can't bully you with her little girl behaviour. Guarantee you she will come around providing you have been consistant right from the start of the relationship by been 90% unshakable/dominant. Congruency is the key.

If she think's she can get a reaction out of you and you keep feeding her she will continue to do it. I hope you haven't done too much damage already.


Kaine

 

[penkitten]

why do you think she has seasonal depression?

 

[Kerensky]

if you know you did something, then you did something bad. try apologizing or letting it wear off.







if you didn't do shiat, then just give her space and don't try to initate anything. just let her sort her crap out and let her initiate convos. Seriously, I never ask peopel "is something wrong?" Cuz then they go "yeah dumbass!!! OF COURSE SOMETHING IS WRONG."

Or they go "yeah...b1tchb1tchb1tchb1tchb1tchb1tchb1tchb1tchb1tchb1tchb1tchb1tch"

Seriously man, don't invite negativity.

 

[AmazingTricks]

Originally posted by penkitten
why do you think she has seasonal depression?

that's called being bi-polar

 

[Brother_Rapp]

When she's acting funny tell her to call you when she comes out of her funk and then walk off and ignore her. She's playing you like a yo-yo and you're going for it. She keeps you off balance and you don't know how to act. I bet she plays with giving you the under plunder too doesn't she. Bark, sit up, roll over, now play dead...okay, here's some of what's under my dress. And you go for it too dfon't you. Ask yourself how many times have you been left to beat your meat behind her crap. GET SOME SENSE!!!

 

[Reach]

Punch her in the face. Talk about a reframe.

 

[Jariel]

I dealt with the same thing a while back and totally screwed up everything, so I wrote this tip. Hope it offers some help.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=70420

 

[Climax]

well...

Just be understanding when she has bad moods.... If she tunes u then just take it and don’t talk much to her, let her know that SHE is in the wrong for treating u the way she is.. and when she calms down SHE will feel BAD about the way she acted, and she will need to "make it up" to you All you need to do is play it kewl, and all is good.

My personal suggestion is that u hold her close, massage her shoulders, just get a lot of kino going when she is in a bad mood, normally that seems to "melt" them down abit and if she doesn’t feel like being touched, then just give her space and make her ASK to be touched again.

Good luck....


Laterz...