"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When a girl flirts, but is never isolated enough to ask out?

KyuRyu

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She flirts, and I've seen some nonverbal signs (things that would be hard, if not nearly impossible to fake, like beaming smiles, giggling, and a noticeable nervous tension in her body language when I'm around), but she's never isolated. It's frustrating. It seems like if she was that into me, she'd make an effort to get herself isolated and at least give me an opportunity to ask her out. Asking her out in front of everyone is a no-go, and I'm not about to dive in her path just to ask her out. Any suggestions?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Purefilth

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Isolate her.

Girls are pack animals - they wont make it easy. Grab her hand, lead her away and talk to her.

Not hard man, not hard at all. sounds like you should be asking this in the high school section anyway.
 

Harry Wilmington

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Simple stuff: ask her for her number, then call her up later and ask her out. How hard is that?? You can ask her for her number in front of other people without it being an embarrassing thing, and if she gives it to you it means, on some level, she's interested.
 

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Walk by the group, motion your hand to her and say "hey come here".

When you're alone say "hey we should hang out sometime, give me your phone number" (while you whip out your phone). If she's not interested you will immediately know - and then you should MOVE ON. If she gives you her number, you're all set. Call her up and ask her out with specific plans.

If she doesn't want to be isolated with you, she's not interested in you.
 

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Post # 2,800!!!

How about you lead her to isolation and make a goddamn move on her huh? Always seize the moment and stop f**kin' analyzing! You gotta make the move. Get your ass up and do it! You're getting buying signals, and what the f**k is stopping you? Yourself. That's my ruling.

1. Shoot first, ask questions later. That's what an alpha does.

2. Shoot after analyzing a lot of pointless sh*t and getting hindered in the process, not to mention attraction fading constantly. That's what a beta does.


Case closed. Choose which number you want to be and get out of my court.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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