"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When a girl doesn't show up...

vagrant

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wow...this girl who I think has a strong interest in me didn't show up nor called or texted me up until now. I let her barrow one dvd about a week ago. She texted me asking if I was going somewhere cuz she said she wants to return the dvd to me. I told her she could bring it tomorrow cuz I was going be home cuz it was my sister's birthday and she was having a party. She said since she was going to the mall she might as well stop by. She knows where I live cuz she already gave me a ride once. She didn't show up like I said nor called or texted me.

Forget my chance. I want my dvd back lol. One of my friend told me she probably wants to return it when I'm all alone cuz she likes me. What I think though is that she's the hot type that gets all the attention all the time who begs her for a date and I'm the type that wasn't giving her any of that. She promised me she'll go and didn't and now she's expecting that I'm wondering why and she's thinking that will increase my interest for her.

I didn't even ask her for a date. Is this what you guys call "flaking"?...I have her pix btw if you guys want to see her. I won't post it here though!~

Let's all discuss this so we could all learn!~
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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vagrant

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should i call her for the second time? = /
 

Leporello

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You should take a writing class.
 

wheelin&dealin

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Dude, play it cool. She's probably using the oldest female tactic in the book, which is.... "not calling". Just relax and give it a few days.

Post some pics of her too.
 
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