Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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when a girl comes up to the bar and asks for a drink

jamescr73

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So im up at the club tonight and I see this chick that i met last year at the same place. She works for a promotion company, and gives out free stuff when you buy one of the drinks shes advertising. She remembered me from last time, and we talked for a minute or so, then parted ways. During the night she kept looking over at me, and after a bit I went over and talked to her a bit more. She gave me a really nice ink pen at one point (didnt buy anything), and instantly knew it was my prop of the night (she slipped it in my shirt pocket). I grabbed a match book, and a bit later when she so obviously walked up and beside me, I took the pen from my pocket and gave it back to her. She put it back in my pocket, and I took it back out and gave it back to her with the match book this time. I told her to put her name and number inside. She did. About a half hour later i walked up to the bar to get a beer, and she was in my way (standing right where i was going) so i bumped her out of the way with my ass. She kinda bumped back then asked me to buy her a drink. (she was working and couldnt buy anything, but guys were buying her drinks during the night so she was drinking on the clock though). I looked in her eyes and said "i dont buy drinks, girls buy them for me". You should of seen her reaction. Wow. Pure gold. After a pause she said "well im on the clock and i cant buy drinks while im working".
Anyway, what do you guys use for ammo in this situation?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Well then, you owe me one when we go out."

"Give me a french kiss and I'll buy you a drink."

or simply..

"What time are you off?"
 

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her story sounds like a bullsh1t ruse to get free alcohol and dominate men
 

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You shoulda just bought her the drink. You could have suggested she return the favour next time. The whole idea of not buying them drinks is only when you're doing it to suck up to them.

If it's not your thing, you could have bought her the drink then walked back to where you were and said 'enjoy the drink. I'll see you around' or something like that. Make it clear that the drink wasn't anything special.
 

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The whole idea of not buying them drinks is only when you're doing it to suck up to them.
That, and it just sets a bad example and usually wastes your money. :rolleyes: I've come across plenty of girls who feel entitled to get free drinks without giving anything in return. Buying drinks is just bad policy, especially if they ASK you to buy it for them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A drink is usually considered by a woman as a way of buying her attention, yet if you head off after you buy her the drink then that is likely to throw her off. And I'm not saying to buy a drink for every woman you approach.
 

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raiz said:
"Well then, you owe me one when we go out."

"Give me a french kiss and I'll buy you a drink."

or simply..

"What time are you off?"
True. If she is interested, she will want to get with you after work. If not, she is a simple Attention Wh*ore.
 
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