"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jair213

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Was texting some hb the other day

Had to go and just told her
"I have to go got a date"

Her "is she wifey material" ??

Could this somehow be a sh!!!tt test question?

Why would she ask that? Smh
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GettinMyMindRight said:
"Yeah, but her husband doesn't know about us, so I'd appreciate it if you didn't say anything."
Lol I need to start being more witty with it
 

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JAIR!

I love you to death, but these questions makes me question your intentions.

1) Why would you even text that?

I know you've read up on Rollo Tomassi's 'Competition Anxiety.' But, BUT you have to be subtle about it. Women sense bullsh!t a mile away, or at least the more experienced ones. Her response shows she's more experienced than you in understanding attraction. She most likely has heard that line before, given her blunt response.

2) Lose the insecurity. You know the only reason why you texted that lame message was to make yourself feel 'higher value.' Doesn't work that way when this HB knows she has more options than you. Trust me she does, and she knows she does. By you texting her that, you made her case.

Be light hearted, BE FUN! Be random, be out of the norm. Don't read up too much on this 'Game Theory.' BE YOU! Have fun DUDE! I can't stress it enough! Start to be you and run with it, women will follow! Most guys here don't understand that concept. They are merely reacting, trying to find a nifty response. Slaves, if you think about it. Create your own game and create the rules. It's much easier!

Not giving a sh!t leads to -
Making outrageous observations leads to -
WTF from a woman, leads to-
This dude is fvcking different, leads to-
Why is this dude so different, leads to -
I want to know why he is different, leads to -
YOU CREATING HER ATTRACTION STANDARDS!!!!!
 

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The411 said:
JAIR!

I love you to death, but these questions makes me question your intentions.

1) Why would you even text that?

I know you've read up on Rollo Tomassi's 'Competition Anxiety.' But, BUT you have to be subtle about it. Women sense bullsh!t a mile away, or at least the more experienced ones. Her response shows she's more experienced than you in understanding attraction. She most likely has heard that line before, given her blunt response.

2) Lose the insecurity. You know the only reason why you texted that lame message was to make yourself feel 'higher value.' Doesn't work that way when this HB knows she has more options than you. Trust me she does, and she knows she does. By you texting her that, you made her case.

Be light hearted, BE FUN! Be random, be out of the norm. Don't read up too much on this 'Game Theory.' BE YOU! Have fun DUDE! I can't stress it enough! Start to be you and run with it, women will follow! Most guys here don't understand that concept. They are merely reacting, trying to find a nifty response. Slaves, if you think about it. Create your own game and create the rules. It's much easier!

Not giving a sh!t leads to -
Making outrageous observations leads to -
WTF from a woman, leads to-
This dude is fvcking different, leads to-
Why is this dude so different, leads to -
I want to know why he is different, leads to -
YOU CREATING HER ATTRACTION STANDARDS!!!!!
I did have a date tho lol

And this chick has liked me since high school just need to finish the job whenever I see her
And we are both 27 so she's probably desperate lol

But thanks 411 legit responses to both my threads.. Gonna keep on not giving a sh!!!ttt

Sometimes I get stuck on reading In too things too seriously when in reality it's nothing
 
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