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When a girl asks you to travel...

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What is the best thing to do, in your opinion, when a girl asks you to travel to a beach town nearby with her friends? Should you accept the offer or play it cool...decline it and then offer something else later? I've only chilled with this girl for a weekend at a group trip...there are sexual tension but she's not all over me or anything...i think she was playing it cool..

The reason I'm asking is because I'm not sure where her interest levels are. When she asked me on msn i can tell she was playing games like...pretending to not know who i am...putting up a pic with her and another guy..and taking a long time to respond..and i called her on it too

She said that 2 of her guy friends MIGHT be coming, and kept on asking me if i wanted to go. i stole her frame by keep not giving her a response for a long time and made her kept on asking me if i wanted to go.

so what do you guys think? any suggestions overall?

I also don't know if i should further qualify her with something like "that beach town is where people get all romantic and ****...i've only chilled with you once..(plus you'll be bringing 2 other guys)...wouldn't it be all weird?" or i should go first and then escalate from there?
 

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Cool, an interesting question for a change.

In my experience, no, don't do it. If you have any kind of interest in this girl, you are only going to confuse yourself trying to build attraction in front of her friends. It sounds you'll have to be quiet for 4 hours while they have all these conversations about people you've never heard of.

Have you tried to do anything one-on-one with this girl? If she's turned you down multiple times, then you might as well give up and go with them as a friend. The more friends male and female, the better, so go check it out.
 
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i know what you mean...but this is a tough situation because i know all the people that she's gonna bring...they're all from the last group trip we went to together. at the last trip the girl is giving me the push and pull...then she added me on facebook..posted some pics..then i added her on msn and she was obviously testing me (like pretending to not know who i was and putting up a pic of her and a guy friend..i called her on both situations and she folded both times)

it seems like this girl is really into me...just holding her cool..but then again girls nowadays are teasing more and more so i don't know...there's a fine line
 
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If you want to go, go.

If you don't, don't.

Your time is valuable, don't waste it chasing flakey girls who play games.
 
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