"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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when a girl asks for YOUR number instead of giving you HERS...

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i always ask for the guy's number. i feel it is unsafe for a girl to be handing her number out to guys that she does not know, especially in a club. and, some of us, would like some control of the courting game. i have never met a guy that has been offended if i take their number instead.
 

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i never knew the universe ran in a natural order of things !
most people know that with each new generation.........things change in the rules of the courting game.
 

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Randallpink83 said:
something else that hasnt been mentioned yet... She might have a boyfriend, and doesnt want to chance you calling her while she is with him.

Yup, this has happened to me a couple times. They are hungry & looking for something new cause current guy is starting to bore them....

The other time it happened to me was kinda of similiar. She was hungry just looking for some action/attention, her was heart broken cause her baby dad cheated on her. Back in my early 20s.

Both times it was pretty much a given, just flat out heavy flirting holding nothing back.
 
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