"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When a friend likes you, but you don't like her

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So a friend of mine has been hinting that she wants me to ask her on a date. I am not interested in her like that, but would like to remain friends.

Should I actually talk to her about it, or just not tell her anything and hope she gets the hint?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Booster.... you need experience to answer her without giving yourself a complete guilt trip, I can tell from the way you ask the question.

Want to know a great way to learn some phrases against her?

Go and ask out 20 girls... if you really want to be just her friend, and don't want to hurt her feelings, play female games... They are far more adept than most guys at rejecting men.

If you want, you can try and make a new kind of opener with it. Some what of a Jealousy Opener, somebody else did a "I want to get rejected" opener that works like a charm every time I use it.

Talk to the girl, and don't screw anything up, just respond respond and talk, no escalation, and keep it calm and mysterious... just be you, whatever kind of person you are right now...

BUT you going to have a purpose, and you will remain congruent the entire time!

What is your purpose? TO choose THE worst moment to ask her out.

When is the worst moment? In the middle of fluff talk, right after you give her a compliment, and right after she laughs at one of your jokes.

Don't foget the field report so we can judge how well you can follow orders.

Cheers!
 
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