"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When a cute girl adds you on facebook, what do you say?

spesmilitis

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When a cute girl adds you on facebook, what do you say?

Im thinkin of 'hey ____, i like your pics, do you have a sn?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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spesmilitis

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Why is this the wrong forum? I used to think that the tips section is for giving tips out, but I see atleast 3 other threads for pple asking for tips.
 

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spesmilitis said:
When a cute girl adds you on facebook, what do you say?

Im thinkin of 'hey ____, i like your pics, do you have a sn?
"Hey, I never gave you permission to add me!"
 
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