Seriously this is like the first HOT chick I've ever made progress with, and apparently she has a reputation for getting around and what not. From what my friends told me she's phucked a few dudes, cheated, and someone told me I can "do better than her". I know for a fact I want to bang her more than anything. But what if I wound up with feelings for her? Would it be a dumb move to make her my gf? I need some feedback guys..
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a chick has a bad rep...
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
eaglez1177
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Would it be a dumb move to make her your gf? YES
Would it be a dumb move to bang her? Depends.
If your one of those kids who actually cares about their hs rep and doesnt want to mess it up, then stay away from this slvt cuz that will probably get out that you did stuff with her and will thus lower your rep.
But if your one of those kids, like me, who doesnt give a fvck about rep, then bang the sh*t out of this chick. Doesnt matter what your friends say; what matters is what you think, and if you think shes hot, then go for her. So what if they say you can do better. I'll say this: Every guy has to start somewhere. You cant expect the first chick you get with to be extremely perfect and amazingly hot.
To be honest, I def had to move up the ladder regarding girls. The first chick I ever got with was a huge slvt, but I thought she was mad hot cuz she had a nice body and gigantic t*ts. If I had listened to what my friends said about staying away from her, I might not have gotten off to as early a start as I did. I started out small, and little by little I got better and better, till now where I know I can easily get with really hot chicks; slvtty and not-slvtty.
The decision is yours, but remember, everyone has to start somewhere. Just curious but what year of hs are you in? Either way, if this is a girl who you think you can become f-buddies with, then I personally would DEF go for it. It'll be worth the practice.
Would it be a dumb move to bang her? Depends.
If your one of those kids who actually cares about their hs rep and doesnt want to mess it up, then stay away from this slvt cuz that will probably get out that you did stuff with her and will thus lower your rep.
But if your one of those kids, like me, who doesnt give a fvck about rep, then bang the sh*t out of this chick. Doesnt matter what your friends say; what matters is what you think, and if you think shes hot, then go for her. So what if they say you can do better. I'll say this: Every guy has to start somewhere. You cant expect the first chick you get with to be extremely perfect and amazingly hot.
To be honest, I def had to move up the ladder regarding girls. The first chick I ever got with was a huge slvt, but I thought she was mad hot cuz she had a nice body and gigantic t*ts. If I had listened to what my friends said about staying away from her, I might not have gotten off to as early a start as I did. I started out small, and little by little I got better and better, till now where I know I can easily get with really hot chicks; slvtty and not-slvtty.
The decision is yours, but remember, everyone has to start somewhere. Just curious but what year of hs are you in? Either way, if this is a girl who you think you can become f-buddies with, then I personally would DEF go for it. It'll be worth the practice.
If you don't know her well enough yet to know for sure if your friends are telling the truth... than yes, bad idea. To make her your girlfriend at least.
But It wouldn't be a bad idea to get to her know her well enough to be able to tell the truth, if she's a keeper or if she is capable of cheating on you.
But It wouldn't be a bad idea to get to her know her well enough to be able to tell the truth, if she's a keeper or if she is capable of cheating on you.
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Basically what eaglez said
there are some girls that just make me want to rip their clothes off and ****/bang/etc. them at school...
haha eaglez...you a chest guy?...there's a girl you mgiht like at my school...probably bigger than your head
i mean...they're fun to look at, at school...but i'm an ass/leg kind of guy...this one girl has these nice round legs...and a curvy butt...just want to jump on that..and i will after she's single again
there are some girls that just make me want to rip their clothes off and ****/bang/etc. them at school...
haha eaglez...you a chest guy?...there's a girl you mgiht like at my school...probably bigger than your head
i mean...they're fun to look at, at school...but i'm an ass/leg kind of guy...this one girl has these nice round legs...and a curvy butt...just want to jump on that..and i will after she's single again
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Just go for it, bang her and then get to know her and then decide if she's gf matterial.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Lol I used to be a chest guy but after I lost my virginity I became an ass/leg guy...idk why but that seems to happen to a lot of guys I know. And yea dude trust me i've got girls like that at my school too...this one chick is a sophmore and she needs like custom bra sizes lol.jeffthechef said:Basically what eaglez said
there are some girls that just make me want to rip their clothes off and ****/bang/etc. them at school...
haha eaglez...you a chest guy?...there's a girl you mgiht like at my school...probably bigger than your head
i mean...they're fun to look at, at school...but i'm an ass/leg kind of guy...this one girl has these nice round legs...and a curvy butt...just want to jump on that..and i will after she's single again
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They answered this question on Manswers one night..not the best show..actually i think it's off the network..anywayseaglez1177 said:
they say that ass, specifically the hip to ass ratio..that hourglass shape ****..is more appealing to guys as they get older because it shows a woman's ability to reproduce...breasts are things that we like as babies...and a little while more after we dont use them for that purpose anymore..
of course, there are exceptions as some guys will always prefer funbags
We kissed in the hall and people are asking if we go out. Its weird, I notice how almost everyone in high school thinks that someone must be your bf/gf to kiss them. It mainly annoys me because that's the way the guys think. As soon as a guy gets a girl, he has her on his myspace saying "She completes me", or some other bs with the date of when they made it official. Then they break up 2 weeks later. Has no one ever heard of dating, or messing around??? Everyone is so desperate for a girlfriend, when in reality all a gf is good for in high school is easy poon and a warm body to hold...unless you manage to find a truly good girl. Which is hard, at least for me anyway. I'm in my last year of HS and I am still deciphering what I really desire/seek in a girl, as I still have yet to fully understand my own self. And yet every guy has either the long emotionally drawn out explanation of his "dream girl", or the guy who says "I just want a b!tch with a fat @$$".
Not exactly sure where I was going with this mini rant, but Im so glad I found sosuave. I feel I am a step ahead of so many guys, and I can now be proactive towards shaping myself into what kind of man I want to be.
Not exactly sure where I was going with this mini rant, but Im so glad I found sosuave. I feel I am a step ahead of so many guys, and I can now be proactive towards shaping myself into what kind of man I want to be.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.