Wheelchair Dating

[djbusdown]

OK before my accident I was the one with a handfull of girls. Still do, but my dilemma.
How do I know if a girl is being nice or do know what to say if shes interested???

ex;
Do you need help getting in you're car
me-no, smile
her- you sure
me- im positive
her-um ok
me- thanks
her-big ass smile, oh she fine ass hell.
me-drive off miserable as hell sitting in another parking lot holding my head.

reason-my pride of getting turn down. just dont wnna mistake niceness..

girls always looking and ****..
I just don't wanna start my year off letting everything go by..
im probably tired of louisiana.. however im moving to cali/vegas so the chicks are real choosey on the west so im ready..
im just a tad cnfused and need advice when to roll the dice, even though i get confused when they look twice..

 

[Slickster]

Her: Do you need help getting in your car?

You: No, but I do need your phone number.

Her: Big smile - Ok

You. : What's your name?

 

[wait_out]

Check out Murderball, those guy are charming as hell. Quad rugby players.

As for women they will react like they always do. There's no shortcut to avoid making mistakes -- you gotta make moves and getting shot down is just part of the game. Don't take it personally or internalize it.

Read this

 

[RecoveringAFC]

I dated a girl in a chair for awhile. It was one of the best relationships of my life. It ended after several years due to poor communication on both sides not because of her injury.

 

[Desdinova]

I work in health care, specifically with those in wheelchairs. There are some men who are extremely flirty with home care, doctors, nurses, and every other sexy thing that crosses their paths. The problem I see with them is they MAKE their chair be their disability when it comes to dating. I've never seen a man in a chair ask for a phone number. They always feel like they're putting an unnecessary burden upon the women they want to date.

As long as you don't make the chair a thorn in your side, you'll be just as good as a guy who isn't in a chair.

Her: Do you need help getting in your car?

You: No, but I do need your phone number.

That's fvcking ace

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear DJ busdown,
Just to give you some encouragement....Some years ago I worked with a disabled guy,he could walk on crutches,but for long distances he used a chair....This guy had more Women than I ever dreamt of,he made seduction into an artform...I would like to say that he was one hell of a guy,but he was a very bitter cruel man!

 

[The Duke]

Djbusdown- I had a very bad accident that put me on crutches/wheelchair a while back. When I healed up enough to where I could venture out, I would leave the wheelchair at home and use my crutches. I have to say this was the easiest time I've ever had in getting women.

As soon as they saw my crutches, they just had to approach me. I didn't have to approach them any longer. All I had to do is lean back, smile, and wait.

These girls all had the same opening line which was "how did you hurt yourself?" My best reply was "I fell out of my sechs swing!"

Most women admired my confidence because I was willing to go out into a crowded bar and be myself.

When I first started venturing out on crutches I always thought I would be a burden to women and didn't feel worthy of asking some girl for her number or to even go out with me. Soon I realized these thoughts were rediculous and embraced the opportunities that came before me.

To answer your question, you never know 100pct if a chic is really into you or just being nice regardless of your physical condition(wheel chair or not). Don't let it deter you from running some game on them and getting a number. Pursue these women just like you did before.

 

[seethehoop]

Forgive me if I'm wrong but I smell a troll.