Wheelchair Dating ADVICE-OPINIONS

[djbusdown]

OK before my accident I was the one with a handfull of girls. Still do, but my dilemma.
How do I know if a girl is being nice or do know what to say if shes interested???

ex;
Do you need help getting in you're car
me-no, smile
her- you sure
me- im positive
her-um ok
me- thanks
her-big ass smile, oh she fine ass hell.
me-drive off miserable as hell sitting in another parking lot holding my head.

reason-my pride of getting turn down. just dont wanna mistake niceness for likeness..

Do you think the girls are trying to help cause they don't know how to approach and say they're interested..
girls are always looking and ****. but not the look like starring.
I just don't wanna start my year off letting everything go by..
im probably tired of louisiana.. however im moving to cali/vegas so the chicks are real choosey on the west so im ready..
im just a tad cnfused and need advice when to roll the dice, even though i get confused when they look twice..

 

[foreverAFC]

the only way to know is ask for the number and see if she will meet you, better to do it and know your answer than not do it and feel like a coward

 

[Desdinova]

Use it to your advantage. If she offers to help, accept it. Get her to hold some mundane thing (like your keys) while you do everything else yourself. Then start conversing with her and go for the number afterward. You have an advantage that other guys don't have: the ability to have women approach YOU. They won't have their bytch shield up when they're wanting to help you.

I have a couple of ex's who dated guys in chairs. As long as you don't act like the chair's a weight around your neck, you'll be able to pull women.

And if you haven't already, pimp out your chair. Get leopard skin seat covers, put flames on it, whatever. Make it look like you have no problem relying on it for your mobility.

 

[djbusdown]

Hey
Des & forever thanks

Nah not at all. Chair last thing on my mind.. You in cali somewhere? girls open out there, choosey..
excuse my typing, im frustrated/anxious.

My problem is I talk to them and I get them to listem.. Yea I know if I get them to listen I should catchem..

I mean I talk to them for more than 10 mins when I first meet them..

I freeze up and don't ask for the # cause I think they're being nice..

So for now on I will just give them a game business card and say give me a call.. I will instruct her to call me..
What would you put on you're biz card.. My name, number & email.. Anything else you would put on the biz cards?

Im frustrated I will just give them my card.. Im tired of talking longer than 10mins and nothing else..
I know girls may not want to come out say it directly..

 

[Desdinova]

So for now on I will just give them a game business card and say give me a call.. I will instruct her to call me..
What would you put on you're biz card.. My name, number & email.. Anything else you would put on the biz cards?

Unless a woman asks for my number, I always get hers. Women will almost never initiate the contact. They expect men to lead and do ALL the work. You need to learn to number close.

May I suggest the DJ Bootcamp?

 

[djbusdown]

Yes you may..

I lead then stop, cause I think they're being nice, but when I drive off or whatever and analyzed the situation. no female was being that nice for that damn long.. After 5 minutes or 15 minutes, I guess it's shame on me..

Unless a woman asks for my number, I always get hers. Women will almost never initiate the contact. They expect men to lead and do ALL the work. You need to learn to number close.

May I suggest the DJ Bootcamp?