"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Whee men are men and women shut the fvck up

TonyBaloney

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Any of you American gentlemen of Irish ancestry may know about the rough and tough brigade that are the Irish travellers.

There still exists in the hinterland that is rural Ireland, these men whos lives revolve around who is the biggest, strongest, meanesy mo fo. These guys meet to decide which of the familys have the stongest sons, and who ultimately through bae fist fighting is crowned the "King of Travellers"

One example of this glorious band of scoudrels is big joe joyce - a 60 year old who STILL engages in bare knuckle fist fights....he is the nearest you will ever find to the ancient line of neanderthals.......

Have a look at what i'm talking about..........

Cut to @ 1.40 for where the action begins! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pf-z0pC2dAs
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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