"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Whoa whoa whoa, tall handsome ethnic dude (Hamza) has similar to or better results than the white guys who look good? I am just wanting to see the reactions of the black pill/incel crowd now lol. However, they will just rationalize it with a "yeah but he is hot, when are girls going to love us ugly minorities?".

However, one stereotype has proven to still be true in this video, British women are hideous.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Whoa whoa whoa, tall handsome ethnic dude (Hamza) has similar to or better results than the white guys who look good? I am just wanting to see the reactions of the black pill/incel crowd now lol. However, they will just rationalize it with a "yeah but he is hot, when are girls going to love us ugly minorities?".

However, one stereotype has proven to still be true in this video, British women are hideous.
I thought this site would get mad because the women didn’t like the first guy who is the type of dude worshipped in the manosphere lol.
 

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He's a bit after your time, but he's something of a notable in the manosphere/looksosphere.
The modern age is interesting. I have never seen so much overwhelming emotional support for being what people would have called a loser a couple of decades ago where its actually normal today. Just like video movie reviews replaced movie clerks and blockbuster video guides. Where I felt isolated in the 00s, its like a large amount of the younger generation is like me back then that its coming to level of cliches.
 

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Whoa whoa whoa, tall handsome ethnic dude (Hamza) has similar to or better results than the white guys who look good? I am just wanting to see the reactions of the black pill/incel crowd now lol. However, they will just rationalize it with a "yeah but he is hot, when are girls going to love us ugly minorities?".

However, one stereotype has proven to still be true in this video, British women are hideous.
He got some nopes and when you heard the nopes they sounded like harsh nos rather than a contemplative no. He is an ethnic chad not an average ethnic. The issue is you see some below average or trashy looking white guys with hot ethnics who look cultishly into them. I dont see that same dynamic with ethnic guys and this video.certainly does not do anything if you are a 3/10 ethnic/black.
 

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I thought this site would get mad because the women didn’t like the first guy who is the type of dude worshipped in the manosphere lol.
Believe it or not, this site is still amongst the most rational in the whole space compared to an incel forum or places like bodybuilding misc (if that site is still around). Now those places are full of Nazi gathering holes.

I am just real shocked that the ethnic dude got a favorable reception since he is Indian/Pakistani in the UK. I have known a lot of Brits and British women absolutely despise South Asian men. Throw Hamza in the US and he would slay just about anywhere in the country. Knew a couple dudes in college with a similar appearance as him who cleaned up.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Believe it or not, this site is still amongst the most rational in the whole space compared to an incel forum or places like bodybuilding misc (if that site is still around). Now those places are full of Nazi gathering holes.

I am just real shocked that the ethnic dude got a favorable reception since he is Indian/Pakistani in the UK. I have known a lot of Brits and British women absolutely despise South Asian men. Throw Hamza in the US and he would slay just about anywhere in the country. Knew a couple dudes in college with a similar appearance as him who cleaned up.
The UK just sucks in general lol. I met a blonde Scottish dude that looked like your typical Hollister Life Guard Model and he was complaining about dating there. Hamza looks like most of the Indian/Pakistani guys at my gym though lol.
 

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You can have the looks, but if you dont have the game behind it, it's worthless.
 

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The UK just sucks in general lol. I met a blonde Scottish dude that looked like your typical Hollister Life Guard Model and he was complaining about dating there. Hamza looks like most of the Indian/Pakistani guys at my gym though lol.
Well then Houston must be Chad central if even the brown dudes are looking like a Chad
 

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I had thought he would be uglier. Except for height, he's legitimately Chad-lite.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I had thought he would be uglier. Except for height, he's legitimately Chad-lite.
I was surprised how good looking he was as well. I was expecting a lot worse.

Did you notice that most times the girls would agree with each other. It’s a bit weird girls seem to want their friends to approve of who they date.
 
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Well then Houston must be Chad central if even the brown dudes are looking like a Chad
There's a lot of Chaddish or bad boy Asian guys here. The Hispanic guys here are mostly fat and beta/blue collar males in trucks though lol.

I had thought he would be uglier. Except for height, he's legitimately Chad-lite.
Your typical dude most frustrated with women is going to fall from a 7-8 in the looks department. This guy is too good looking to settle for a 49er but also not good looking enough/not rich enough to bag a 8-10. A 7 is basically an 8 in the normie market. If you are a 7-8 in looks scale then you are doomed in the dating market unless you want to bite the bullet and settle down with a 49er.
 

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I think Tinder id a better way to get ‘rated’. Women will swipe R & meetup with you if they find you sexually attractive. And while you wont get a rating number, you can extrapolate to an approximate.
 

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I think Tinder id a better way to get ‘rated’. Women will swipe R & meetup with you if they find you sexually attractive. And while you wont get a rating number, you can extrapolate to an approximate.
Has anyone here gotten a looks rating from Wheat Waffles? I was considering it. I would like to know where my looks rate. However, I'm marketing myself to women, not British male red haired men.

What's the best way to get a looks rating? Photofeeler? Wheat Waffles? Something else?


I used that without using a photo where my face was 50% of the picture and 4 pictures of mine rated between 6.8-7.5.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I was surprised how good looking he was as well. I was expecting a lot worse.
if That guy is good looking , then I am a solid 10

Realistically he is not more than a solid 5 or a 6 in a good day . Average normally or slightly above average in a good day
 
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Hey guys, you're 35+ not 15 anymore. You're looking at some moron or a website to rate your attractiveness?! o_O Jesus ****in' Christ!
 

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Hey guys, you're 35+ not 15 anymore. You're looking at some moron or a website to rate your attractiveness?! o_O Jesus ****in' Christ!
not Being good looking S8cks , but in most cases how they look is the least of their problems

most people here have terrible mindsets
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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