whatsup with girls playing power games when they first meet me

[proteinshake]

I wish girls would just submit to me when they met me. i hate dealing with dumb**** like wasting my time worrying about whose gonna call who. I hate missing out on opportunities to get with hot chicks just bc both of us have too much pride. but as djs we gotta know that submitting ourselves to girls is setting ourselves up as the bit ch in the relationship. for ex i told this girl ive been talking to lately to call me tonight and she said her phone was broken where it only recieves calls so i would have to call her.... thats bs if ive ever heard it, so im not gonna call her. ill probably go to a party and hookup with a random girl ill never talk to again and still feel unfufilled.

 

[Raikojo17]

y not call her first? it doesnt mean she has more power, ur taking control when u make the first move. ur being the man.

it's highly unlikely to expect a girl to call u and initiate stuff when u first meet them, unless they are confident ( which most girls arent)

just call her man

 

[Pimp-sicle]

I wish girls would just submit to me when they met me. i hate dealing with dumb**** like wasting my time worrying about whose gonna call who. I hate missing out on opportunities to get with hot chicks just bc both of us have too much pride. but as djs we gotta know that submitting ourselves to girls is setting ourselves up as the bit ch in the relationship. for ex i told this girl ive been talking to lately to call me tonight and she said her phone was broken where it only recieves calls so i would have to call her.... thats bs if ive ever heard it, so im not gonna call her. ill probably go to a party and hookup with a random girl ill never talk to again and still feel unfufilled.

You've got no experience in the game!!! If you knew how it really works, you would know that girls like men who LEAD!!! Why are you worried about who calls who?? If you meet a girl and # close her, it doesn't make you a wussy or the beta in the relationship if you call her!!! LOL

You've got no one to blame but yourself for missing out on potential opportunties. What you say is pride, is actually a lack of knowledge in the game. Learn how it really works so you can fuvk the hell outta these girls, rather than losing out because of a phone call.

There are certain things that will always work a certain way with female/male interaction. until you figure that out you will always be losing out on potential relationships, fuvk buddies and new female friends.



PIMP

 

[AckeDman]

I do belive in chicks playing power games... let me give you guys an example of what i have seen.

A couple sit down in the subway next to me. They are both fairly attractive in late 20s or early 30s. The guy after a while raises his hand up to her like she is supposed to give him a high five(it didnt look as lame as u might imagine... he just wanted to hold hands or something). The girl then does something that totally shocks me... she just looks at him straight in the face while fixing her cap or whatever she was doing. After he had his hand up about 10-15 sec she connects with her hand on his...

I just kept thinking to myself why would she do that? And then i realised that some of what is said on this site must be truth...

 

[SnakeCharmer]

Women DO play power games eary on in relationships and friendships. More than once I've taken a woman out, and halfway to the event I had picked out, she'd go "Hey, there is a movie playing I'd love to see, can we go watch that???" Typical question; she was trying to see if I would cave down to her wishes. Or, in simple english, she wanted to know if I had a backbone and some balls.

Due to the condition of modern men, women are used to having guys bow to their wishes just for the shot at some time in bed. And, when a woman finds out that you're NOT going to wilt at her wishes, it makes her realize that your different in a good way.

It is just a feeling-out process that women like to put men through. Be advised, if you give in once, you better get used to giving in all the time. With me, I don't give any power away until at least the 4th date. By then, if she is an open minded woman I've slept with her at least three times. And by that point in the relationship she knows I'm not going to act like a scared puppy if she stomps her foot at me.

 

[~attrACTION~]

I think if a woman is not submitting to you, she is not attracted to you.

I used to get confused over this too, and then I recently started to go after women who actually like me. If you go after women who already like you, believe me, you control everything.

 

[proteinshake]

well i just wanted to let you guys know that after a night of parties, surely enough i recieve a phonecall at midnight. its her, i tell her "get ready cuz im picking you up" i had a few ppl over at my house for drinks last night and she sleeps over in my bed, using her best game trying to get with me and we were both sober.

 

[Mind_Body_Soul]

I think if a woman is not submitting to you, she is not attracted to you.

I used to get confused over this too, and then I recently started to go after women who actually like me. If you go after women who already like you, believe me, you control everything.

Attraction - this is actually sorta profound. You're judging a women's IL by whether or not she goes into her "natural" role. I think that's great actually.

Of course you still have to deal with the initial power struggle at times because the woman wants to make sure you're powerful, but maybe what you're saying is that after the initial "power struggle" she goes into female role if she likes/respects you.