"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What's your type?

What is your type of chick? (physically)

  • ok face, ok body

    Votes: 12 37.5%

  • bad face, bangin body

    Votes: 2 6.3%

  • wicked hott face, bad body

    Votes: 9 28.1%

  • I like option 1 and 2

    Votes: 7 21.9%

  • I like option 2 and 3

    Votes: 2 6.3%

  • I don't mind

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Total voters
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I'm just curious to see what the majority votes. FYI, there isn't the option of great face, great body, because we are realalistic. Just choose one of the options, then sit back and relax.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If a girls face is alright, but her body is really nice, I would hit it. I dont know, the body for some reason plays such a huge part in attraction for me. Maybe because when I look at girls I dont really focus in on them, I just look at everything if you know what I mean, like kinda fuzzy eyed if you catch my drift.
 
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Once some of you lads get some more notches on your bedpost, you'll realize that a girl with a 10/10 body far outweighs a 5,6,7/10 face.

The girls with the tight athletic bodies fvck like pornstars, and after a little while with any girl, the "so-so" face starts looking more and more attractive.

It also means that they put some effort in(gym, sport, whatever) unlike the girl with the cute face and crap body who is just a genetic celebrity.

Did I mention they fvck like pornstars? ;)
 
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I would say hot body, because then you can always just do her doggystyle, while you can't really escape a bad body, unless you make her wear a burlap sack while she blows you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Blonde, blue eyes, nice body. Although usually if she just has a nice body, that'll pass.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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GaryUranga said:
I have high standards, poll doesnt apply
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everyone does:wave: ! I'm just saying the next best thing. Let's face it the mad hot girls are most likely already taken or have something wrong with them.:eek:
 
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oteao99 said:
everyone does:wave: ! I'm just saying the next best thing. Let's face it the mad hot girls are most likely already taken or have something wrong with them.:eek:
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Why settle for the next best when you can go and take what you want?:rockon:
 
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GaryUranga said:
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same. i jsut settled.
The girl needs to be Good all around. good face and amazing body, or amazing face and good body.
preferably both.

and maybe a personality. if i'm in the mood for some real conversations.
 
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26% say - great face and bad body..? what is this, kindergarten or the annual AFC convention ))) LMAO....
 
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Rudra said:
26% say - great face and bad body..? what is this, kindergarten or the annual AFC convention ))) LMAO....
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where did you get that percent, I don't see that option anywhere.:confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nice face, but really nice body. If she looks like a pug, I ain't touchin' that no matter how nice her body may be.
 
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I like girls who look good, but they also have to have a brain behind that.
 
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