Whats Your Take?

[Gettinthere]

A friend of mine just wrote me asking me for my opinion. She is 30 has been seeing this guy for a while and apparently got into some kind of augerment and the guy dump her butt out of his car and made her walk home.

I wrote back to her and told her this guy is toxic and deserves no respect from you but deserves you foot in his butt and to get rid of him now for his abuse will only get worst.

So the question is, is it ever a time you throw your lady out the car and let her walk home?

Whats your take? I say no, unless shes scatching the hell out of me but this isn't he case with my lady friend here.

Gettinthere

 

[vorbis]

well if it was over something petty she should dump him. Throwing someone out of your car is immature and moronic. If she goes back to him, she'd prob got LSE and the guy will have a complete hold on her.

 

[Gettinthere]

well if it was over something petty she should dump him. Throwing someone out of your car is immature and moronic. If she goes back to him, she'd prob got LSE and the guy will have a complete hold on her.

What is LSE?

She may already have it as this relationship has been going on seems forever and no one seems to convince her that this guy is no good for her.

Gettinthere

 

[Jariel]

What is LSE?

She may already have it as this relationship has been going on seems forever and no one seems to convince her that this guy is no good for her.

Gettinthere

Low Self Esteem. Any girl who goes back to an abusive boyfriend is best avoided like the plague!

 

[Gettinthere]

Low Self Esteem. Any girl who goes back to an abusive boyfriend is best avoided like the plague!

Definitely, I have to agree with you though I have no romantic interest in her for myself only friends and if she don't start listening maybe not even that anymore.

Gettinthere

 

[WC2]

Remember one thing fellas; Women love drama. They love talking about it (as seen here), fighting about it, and *****ing about it. Now I'm not saying it's right to be absusive to your girl.. that kind of thing is for pussies. BUT, sometimes a little arguing every now and then does keep a relationship fresh, lively, and different. You every wonder why the couples who fight the most, **** the most? Think about it. Just like most women like to take it in the butt, most women like to be told what to do by a man. Having a healthy relationship doesn't neccesarily mean having a boring relationship.

 

[MacDiddy]

Theres 2 sides to every story and bf/gf don't just go dumping each other on the street to work home alone.. without just cause.. She was privledge to be riding in someone elses vehicle and should have kept her mouth shut until the end of the trip to air any grievences or piss the guy off (providing the ride)

Sometime, people in an argument get driven to the point where they hate each other, and dont want anything more to do with the other and hence your lady friend was told to get out of the car... Now it could have been said politely, but I'm sure he wanted no more to do with her, and felt no obligation to take her anywhere..

 

[rocky_mtn]

I drive a jeep and it isn't as comforable as riding in a car. No top, no doors, wind noise, sun, rain. If you don't like riding with me, I will let you off anywhere you want. If you keep b!tching I'll drop you off right here. Its a priveledge to ride with me, not a right.

Do you really want to persue a chick who got kicked out of the car by another dude. He might not be the one who is toxic. But you never know, so work it and see.

p.s. I once saw a chick get out of a car on an on ramp to the turnpike, she looked pissed, it was pretty funny.