"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Vantagepoint34

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Basically all the years I've been here on Sosuave I've built up my own shield. Ten years back they went through a build up phase and has changed from over all consumers. From anyone left from that time we are through the usual B.S. Culture gives us from the prove it mentality. Which is totally a Florida boy thing. Oh you have a girl prove it. I think it's more of if you have it or you don't. I've since that time have put together three bachelors degrees in Marketing and engineering. It's good to be smart but to what point. Just post what you believe in if it's PUA or if you are into specifics what have you put together. Maybe you are the next freud with your own pov of things. Excited to hear your responses. Hopefully we get on the Hall of fame here LOL where's my eyes roll emoji
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Vantagepoint34

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What part of Florida you from? I've been in either Miami, broward, or pbc for the past three years. This is a totally different part of the country than the rest of the USA
I'm in Orlando but have some stints where I'm in Miami. Both have similarities. Both big on tourism. Once in a while I run into a gem from Tampa or Jacksonville.
 
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