"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What's your say on couples that break up then get back together?

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So the chick I'm going to the formal with goes out with my friend for a month. Then she dumps him. Then a month later she realises she made a mistake and asks him if he wants to start dating again, (today) he said yes.
How long do these sort of relationships last usually? Do you think they'll still be together by the time the formal swings round in 4 months?
I said to my friend, "If you're still dating her by the formal its gunna be really awkward."
Him: "Nah it won't. It'll be fine."
:rolleyes:
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ahh this is kinda the situation that im in at the moment :
this girl that goes on my bus has been dating this guy for like a year, then 2 months ago they broke up and we were getting close, I asked her out and she said she needed more time to get over him then 1 week later they are going back out! I was like o_O but anywho I decided to use some dj moves and just acted c&f around her and woah, she seems to be coming back onto me hehe! But i dont think i'll have any of that; as long as the ex bf is about something can always happen!

On another note, I was so stoked today !!! There has been this girl that i've been interested in, seen her in the library a few times and we've made eye contact, any I asked my mate about her etc. and today I introduced myself and she already knew who I was lol so i'm assuming my mate and friend (female) talked to her about me, but yea was so happy that I was chatting to her! hehe she went all red when I started talking but I didnt mind! And contray to what my mate told me, she is like a part-time gym instructor! and she is also quite smart \ hot ! So i've been browsing the bible threads to see what to talk about \ do when I see her tomorrow!!
Sorry but I just had to tell someone! :cool:
 
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i love **** like this :)


If you cant find anyone new to ****, go back the old *****ez :)
 
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The ONLY reason why you are dumped is because they think they can get someone better (This is true once you start to think about it).

They've realised that:

1) They can't get someone better, or
2) Their ex is better than they first thought (which is really a variation of (1))

So they get back together.

Either way, forget her.
 
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The pool has been pissed in.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Great advice LikeRetSam. Thanks for that.

I read somewhere that going to the Prom with someone who has a BF is really awkward. Is that true? I'm thinking of breaking it off, but everyone thinks I'm just being weird about it all saying,
"You just show up with her, eat, dance. It means nothing. How could that be awkward?"

So do they last or not?
 
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What I wanne know is why isn't your friend going with his girl to the Formal since they're back together. And I personally think going out basically on a date with ur friends girl is weird, but if you're all comfortable with it by all means. But why go with his girl when you can get your on girl to dance with and kiss on?
 
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Heres the story: My friend asked someone else to the formal, then realised he liked my formal date. He's a bit of a DJ and she soon fell for him. Now they are dating, leaving me and his date, weirded out.
No I'm not comfortable with it. I ask my friends if it would be too harsh to cancel, they all say yes. "she would feel sad and lonely. I don't know why you think it would be awkward. you just take her there, dance, eat and leave. " w00t.
In tradition can guys cancel their dates to the prom?
 
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Don't cancel. That really would be an ******* thing to do. No matter how much you don't want to go with your date, just show up with her and leave with someone else. She would be pissed if you didn't go with her but went with soemone else. lol.

Well really you should do whatever you want. I do whatever I want and it seems to be working pretty well so far.
 
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Seems like kind of an a.sshole move that your friend pulled.

Why don't you guys switch dates?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Seems like kind of an a.sshole move that your friend pulled.

Why don't you guys switch dates?
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Exactly, switch dates. Canceling on ur current date doesn't really seem like a ***** move including the akward situation. And now that u told us how it became that way it does seem like your friend made a ***** move; come now he made your date his GF. WTF.
 
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Yeah. I've thought about that. But I don't really know his date that well (come to think of it, either does he). So I think it might be even more awkward.
I think I'll wait it out. See if they're still together by the end of the year. If so, I'll decide then on what to do.
Thanks for the help everyone. :cool:
 
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