"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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whats your rate of weight gain?

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At what rate do you gain weight per month/year. This is assuming you are working out to gain weight and you are following the stikies on this forum (working out 3-4 days a week, eating right, working out right, ect. ).

I gained weight at 10 lbs per year, workingout wrong but eating right. Now i've been gaining weight at around 2 lbs a month for the last 3 monthes working out right (by incorporating squats/deadlifts into my workouts)

What about you guys?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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quite fast...20lb in 8 months. i've been eating at 2.0 x protein, 3.0x carbs, weight training and no cardio.
 

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A chunk of that is fat, theory of knowledge
 

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Gained a ridiculous 52lbs over the course of one year. Working out 3 times a week. 2g protein / lb bodyweight. High-fat, low-carb. Probably put quite a bit of fat on since last year, but my thighs are really quite lean and I've put at least 2 inches on each. Really not sure how I've put on this much weight. Gained about 0.5 lbs this month, though I've been having a break from lifting and haven't been eating as much as I should.
 

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52lbs easily half of that is fat.
Don't just look at numbers.
52 pounds is 20kg.
Noone gains 20kg of muslce in a year.
7-8kg? Probably, rest fat.
High fat low carb says it all.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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when i started i was gaining 2-3lbs a week. but when i started working my meals got messed up and i lost most of what i gained.
 

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I gained probably about 15lbs in the last 12 weeks and 10lbs of those are Lean body mass. I expect the gain to come slower for my next 12 week cycle though.
 

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MrS said:
52lbs easily half of that is fat.
Don't just look at numbers.
52 pounds is 20kg.
Noone gains 20kg of muslce in a year.
7-8kg? Probably, rest fat.
High fat low carb says it all.
Like I said, I probably put on quite a bit of fat. I've always been able to put on weight very easily, and was quite underweight when I first started thanks to a diet with a bare minimum of protein. I'll be able to tell you my bodyfat when I get my calipers in next week, though at the moment I can't even 'pinch an inch'.

Don't be so quick to judge the high-fat, low-carb diet. I suggest you google 'anabolic diet' and read up at the following:

http://www.t-nation.com/readTopic.do?id=658379 (very interesting reading)
http://www.impulseadventure.com/weights/hifat.html
http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/hugo5.htm

Espi; I don't use any steroids. People who haven't seen me for a year sometimes don't even recognise me because I look so different. It's great.
 

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Espi said:
You're right, Mr. S: 52 lbs. in one year ain't happening.

I hate to say this, but I would estimate 99.9% of reported gains are grossly exaggerated.
I was 133lbs at the time of weighing, July last year. Yesterday morning, (post crap, empty stomach) I was 185lbs. I never claimed that it was all muscle.

Believe what you want, it doesn't matter to me, because I know for sure what I've accomplished. I'm still nowhere near where I want to be, but I'm gonna keep on going.
 

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No worries. It's really weird how fast the weight went up though.

Congrats on your gains btw.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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