"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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whats your perference on this

KneghtRyder

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this is purely a perferential question amd as you can see,

Obviously I am not trying to spin plates, I am just stopping and working on the first chick that goes out with me...


what do you find better to do ?

A)
1 number -> follow it up -> if flake, next number else end
( this way you will know if you have to Sarge or not after each number)

or

B)
get 10 numbers -> follow all up at the same time
( this way , you will not know if you have to sarge or not after each number kinda in the blind on what your status is)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ValleyDJing

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I usually do A. Life is too f.ucking complicated to have 10 different beezies to worry about at once. Although if you can do it, you might as well have at least 3 or 4 prospects.
 
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