"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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a lil while back when i was single,... I was talking to alot of girls... and there was this certain girl who i wanted to get with who works a local pizzeria... Black hair, Blue eyes, nice tight azz... shes pretty hot!. anyway.. when i was single.. we would flirt, she would smile at me and i would say some pretty flirty things to her and she would smile alot! but when i asked for her number she was hesitant and said she had a boyfriend. Okay fine, ill go pimp otha chicks... Now that im in a serious relationship... when i see her shes always asking about my situation or if im still with my g/f. why would she keep asking this? Also today.. i walk in to get a bite to eat after work.. there she is with a smile.. "Heeeyyy" asking wheres my g/f... and how come she hasnt seen me around as much anymore. why the hell does she keep asking about my girlfriend?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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probably theres a little bit of jealousy. its human nature. sometimes with girls who i know like me i wont be interested at firsts. ill just keep them in the back of my mind. then if they get a bf, suddenly ill be like woah why didnt i go for her. ive noticed this happens much stronger with girls. call it what you want, social proof, whatever. i just reckon its simple jealousy.
 
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Do you really eat pizza that much for it to matter? She is probably just making conversation - who cares? You are in a "serious relationship" so whats the big deal?

Next time she asks just say, "Ya my GF is doing great, everytime we have sex she always wants pizza afterwards." She'll stop asking next time... LOL
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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flexion_ said:
Do you really eat pizza that much for it to matter? She is probably just making conversation - who cares? You are in a "serious relationship" so whats the big deal?

Next time she asks just say, "Ya my GF is doing great, everytime we have sex she always wants pizza afterwards." She'll stop asking next time... LOL
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