"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What's your opinion on this? Was this the right thing to do?

Dole

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A few weeks ago I asked this girl out on a date. She says maybe, her sister MIGHT be coming over and that she will let me know. I made other plans for that day and called her up the day before and told her we should reschedule for next weekend (friday). She says something along the lines she doesn't plan that far ahead but agrees to it(a week ahead).

Thursday I see her at school we talk and then I asked her if we are still hanging out tomorrow.She says fridays are bad for her because she has work saturday morning, instead she wants us to go saturday night. I call her saturday a few hours before the date and she doesn't pick up and instead sends me a text:
her: I am at school filming a project, i am not sure how long ill be
me: okay, are we still on for tonight?
her: Hopefully if I get out of here soon
me: cool
her: Hey im still here... we might have to reschedule
me: Nah thats okay. See you around
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJVladdy

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no, not NEXT

because SHE already NEXTED him a long time ago.
 
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