"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What's your opinion on this situation?

styleman

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arlanda said:
As a rule of thumb I wait for the girl to contact me = I'm testing for a high interest level

Of course, everyone is different but if she'd enjoyed your company and isn't retarded she won't let you get away 99%
Although I feel the interest level is there, I mean we had some pretty good, interesting, funny and deep, conversation, and a good bit of light kino. Is it possible to create a higher interest level over time?
The reason I ask this is because I never really trust what a woman says, for example a girl said to me once "You're so sweet, you're just the best" and later blew me off, to put it in light words (different girl of course)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Looks like you have positive feedback so this is a signal to elevate to a higher level - but this time do a fun activity - an action date!!

You are not the ****y funny type so don't try to be! Call her to set up a fun action date.
 
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