"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What's your opinion on this situation?

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arlanda said:
As a rule of thumb I wait for the girl to contact me = I'm testing for a high interest level

Of course, everyone is different but if she'd enjoyed your company and isn't retarded she won't let you get away 99%
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Although I feel the interest level is there, I mean we had some pretty good, interesting, funny and deep, conversation, and a good bit of light kino. Is it possible to create a higher interest level over time?
The reason I ask this is because I never really trust what a woman says, for example a girl said to me once "You're so sweet, you're just the best" and later blew me off, to put it in light words (different girl of course)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Looks like you have positive feedback so this is a signal to elevate to a higher level - but this time do a fun activity - an action date!!

You are not the ****y funny type so don't try to be! Call her to set up a fun action date.
 
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