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What's your opinion on kissing a woman's hand when you meet her?

the_govner

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I've only tried it once, but at the end of the first meeting (and the girl was French), and it worked fantastically because when I saw her again a few days later she gave me her hand to kiss. However, this was one time.

If you get introduced to a girl, or meet a girl for the first time however way it is, what's your opinion on hand kissing?
 

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Hooligan Harry

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No, you need to be an idiot to do something like this. If its a cultural thing then fine. Men dont kiss womens hands anymore.

Now if done as a joke or to take the piss, then different story.

As an introduction? Nah man, you will only come across as a social retard
 

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Hooligan Harry said:
No, you need to be an idiot to do something like this. If its a cultural thing then fine. Men dont kiss womens hands anymore.

Now if done as a joke or to take the piss, then different story.

As an introduction? Nah man, you will only come across as a social retard
WRONG

My friend who is an ex male stripper is 36 and is known around the city for sleeping with so many women. A true DJ. When he meets a girl he grabs her hand and pretends like he is going to kiss her hand but he starts kissing he's own hand and then the girl starts laughing her asses off. I tried it a few times girls loved it.
 

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It depends on the vibe of the place we're at and what character I'm playing.

Sometimes I'm just taking the piss. Sometimes I do it for real.

The chicks always love it.

Btw if she gets used to it and gives you her hand to kiss when you meet again, it's the perfect opportunity to pull the kiss your own hand trick.
 

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Nah man kissing her hand isnt cool, licking it is way sexier, make sure you leave a ton of saliva and bad breath is a plus ;)

When you done licking it look back up at her and smile while drooling a little bit, turns them on half the time, everytime :)
 

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HandyAndy said:
Nah man kissing her hand isnt cool, licking it is way sexier, make sure you leave a ton of saliva and bad breath is a plus ;)

When you done licking it look back up at her and smile while drooling a little bit, turns them on half the time, everytime :)
:crackup:

but yeah, kissing the hand seems pretty lame. I mean in order for it to work it probably needs to be more a joke than anything. If it's serious then that is just not cool. Reeks of AFC to me. It's almost like bringing a girl a rose or flowers on the first date.
 

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San Jose California said:
Not true. An extremely hot girl (you guys would call her an HB 9) told me about a time a guy did that and it turned her the hell on. The girl next to her (her friend) agreed.
Ah ok. So now we taking tips from women are we?

Son, one of the first things you learn is that women are the last people you listen to when it comes to seduction. Do yourself a favour and dont go kissing womens hands when you are introduced.

I tell you what. Field test it. Come back with your results.
 

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San Jose California said:
Not true. An extremely hot girl (you guys would call her an HB 9) told me about a time a guy did that and it turned her the hell on. The girl next to her (her friend) agreed.
He probably was very good looking and and had other DJ qualities so he could pull it off.

But then again trust a women's actions, not her words. Unless she slept with this guy, then I don't take it as credible evidence.
 

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Dole said:
WRONG

My friend who is an ex male stripper is 36 and is known around the city for sleeping with so many women. A true DJ. When he meets a girl he grabs her hand and pretends like he is going to kiss her hand but he starts kissing he's own hand and then the girl starts laughing her asses off. I tried it a few times girls loved it.
So basically what you saying is that you will kiss the hand of a woman you just met? Like you see in a victorian movie?

BWHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Alright mate. Like I said, if done from a position of humour then its not the end of the world. You look like a right tosser most of the time because kissing a womans hand is a cultural thing. Its no longer part of our culture. Thats why its funny and the girls like it. You doing it because its ridiculous, not because its meant to be something more.
 

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Ive done it, good reactions..

Traditions, culture, etc.. doesn't matter. It's a type of greeting (not commonly used), that you can use yourself, and automatically be a little more different from everyone else, in a good way.

Of course, like play to win mentioned, you have to "pull it off". As in, dont be creepy, gooberish, or weird/awkward about it. So if you struggle with basic social skills, don't do it. Otherwise, go ahead.
 

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It has a high success rate! It can keep you out of the friend zone if done with confidence. Don't overdo this though. And you better kiss slowly (manly), a quick hand peck does NOT show you're a man, but a wuss.
 

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Well I did it last night.

Although I was in a suit, had a cuban in my hand, so it kind of suited the position I was in.

I think if you go up with confidence, with a look that says "you are one lucky hoe to have a guy like me kiss your hand", then I believe it can be pulled off.
 

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HAHAHAHAHA

This is going to be awesome. Geeks all over America kissing the ladies on the hands.

You social butterflies you!
 

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If a cultural thing, that's cool.
But in Western culture under most circumstances, it could come off as kino overload too soon, cheesy, or just plain wierd.
And you don't know where her hand's been... ;)
 

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It's not what you do, but how you do it. Do it with confidence and most women will get weak in the knees. Do it with sweaty hands and spastic movements and she'll probaly think you're a weirdo.
 
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