whats your inspiration for openers?

[Arizona iced tea]

when you are out and about what do you use to come up with an opener? i hate using canned lines so i try to think up something on the spot but alot of the time i just cant think of anything good...

last time i was out was with my friend and i used openers asking girls opinions of us, like who looked better... i dont think it was so good b/c i really put them on the spot and they werent ready.

anyway, let me hear what comes into your head when you are getting ready to make your move.

 

[daygameguy]

when you are out and about what do you use to come up with an opener? i hate using canned lines so i try to think up something on the spot but alot of the time i just cant think of anything good...

last time i was out was with my friend and i used openers asking girls opinions of us, like who looked better... i dont think it was so good b/c i really put them on the spot and they werent ready.

anyway, let me hear what comes into your head when you are getting ready to make your move.

Day time options:

1. Opinion opener (on something you wouldn't ask your guy friends about).
2. Directions - followed by - "you're not from here are you?"
3. Directions (Pre-opener) followed by "hey i don't know if you can help me.. but I actually need an opinion on something.." (Opinion opener)
4. Direct opener.

Don't use situational stuff because it is small talk. Use it later to build rapport.

Night time options:
1. Opinion opener.
2. "HEYYY.. you guys seem cool.. wanted to say hello"

 

[Snow Plowman]

It's called entertaining yourself, stop going up to chicks trying to find the right things to say...

Three things that help me
1. Not giving a fuk what anyone thinks
2. Not giving a fuk how anyone reacts
3. Not giving a fuk what comes out my mouth

Once you've internalized that your free from verbal content because your putting your personality on display in the bakery. No holds bar, uncut YOU. So you go up and talk to the chick.

It all comes down to who you are, I'm a pretty retarded guy so the **** I come up with are absurd, I like **** like going up to chicks saying I'm looking for human bodies to eat...I like putting the girl as the chode and me as the hot bitvh that needs everything on a platter. I'm the guy who plays around with the WORST accents and tells the most retarded stories...

Things will come, just stop filtering what's good or bad, it's not about them it's about you...

 

[daygameguy]

It's called entertaining yourself, stop going up to chicks trying to find the right things to say...

Three things that help me
1. Not giving a fuk what anyone thinks
2. Not giving a fuk how anyone reacts
3. Not giving a fuk what comes out my mouth

Once you've internalized that your free from verbal content because your putting your personality on display in the bakery. No holds bar, uncut YOU. So you go up and talk to the chick.

It all comes down to who you are, I'm a pretty retarded guy so the **** I come up with are absurd, I like **** like going up to chicks saying I'm looking for human bodies to eat...I like putting the girl as the chode and me as the hot bitvh that needs everything on a platter. I'm the guy who plays around with the WORST accents and tells the most retarded stories...

Things will come, just stop filtering what's good or bad, it's not about them it's about you...

That's inner game. Its good to have proper outer game too. But I agree with you nonetheless.

 

[WC2]

That's inner game. Its good to have proper outer game too. But I agree with you nonetheless.

And without inner game, the outer game is just a fake facade. Are real men fake? I'd hope not.

I've always believed in inner game, because it creates it's own outer game. Instead of going off canned lines or that type of thing, you can portray your personality through yourself. When I talk to a woman I speak through my mind at that moment. I have instilled values into my mind in which I KNOW that I can turn on a woman on speaking through my inner self, as opposed to using something someone else would say. Why? Because once you've instilled values that you are going to say what you want without worrying about what anyone thinks, you then have the ability to speak on a sexual level with a woman with no distractions.

My favorite openers are quick, funny, and to the point. Even more so, it's relevant to the current situation. None of that creepy generalized BS. An interaction is only genuine if it comes from within your own self and relevant to the present time.

 

[ready123]

I literally just say the first thing that pops into my head. Depending on my mood it might be funny or generic. I've also said and done wierd sht because I was having fun and didn't care if she felt me or not. it's all about the vibe anyway

I never get hung up on the opener anymore because 5 more seconds into a sarge, how well you opened ceases to matter