"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What's Your Favorite Cologne Picks?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Iamnotacrook
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Bluesteak
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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its a sweet masculine smell...
i get compliments all of the time on it
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Here's the other cologne thread that somebody mentioned.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=18270
If you need some guidance.
http://www.youtube.com/user/tswetcoff
Solomon
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peace
i agree.. there are so many other aquatic colognes out there that are much better than acqua di gio.Michele said:
acqua di gio and cool water are the safest colognes i can think of.. and that's not a good thing.
also.. acqua di gio and other fragrances like it are suited more for casual/everyday use.. for a date, use something that has a more sensual aroma.
vanilla is good year round, but is especially good during winter (for spring/summer, a cologne with strong floral notes makes sense.. but NOT during winter when the smell of flowers is an anomaly).
as for me..
i use givenchy pi, chanel allure homme sport, and 2 others that i won't mention for the same reason that Solomon gave (i'm a selfish sob). the cologne i use depends on the season and my mood at the time.
i've used many different colognes over the years.. the one most important piece of advice i can give to anyone: stay away from jean paul gaultier, unless you don't mind smelling like a girl. it's the typical metrosexual wannabe fragrance.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Issey Miyake - L'eau d'Issey Pour Homme
-My favorite scent. Its just...fantastic..its a lemony scent that is just beautiful. It has really good ongevity, ok sillage, and the girls love it.
Escada - Magnetism
-Very nice as well, probably second favorite...this deep, bold cologne that is a touch feminine and starts of like grape soda. Sounds weird, but its great.
Givenchy - Pi
-At first too strong and offensive, but it cools down nicely. Girls really like it
Victoria's Secret - Very Sexy 2 for Men
-I usually do one spray of this and one of Issey combined, but this is a nice vanilla kind of scent, although a little chemically
Claiborne - Candies
-Playful, happy scent. Its refreshing to smell.
Bvlgari - Bvlgari Extreme
-Not sure how to describe it..i'm all out for now, but its really good. Damn.
lol, its my fav store, I buy a ton of stuff there, but I love Fierce, its very masculine, yet not too strong, and works perfect in every season. The best thing about it, is that I love the smell.Bluesteak said:
It would be dumb to wear something you don't like. Keep that in mind, or it will drive yourself crazy
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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BongDuy
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Hard to find but if you go to a perfume store, they might have it. Only use a little of it, spray on wet hands and apply on skin. Females find it irresistible. Don't go buying all of it now. Also check out body sprays, Bod came out with a new one called Body heat, don't use the fruity ones that evryone has.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.