“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What's your body type?

Quiksilver

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I was doing some research tonight and came across a nice little layout of something I believe is rather important to anyone looking to start a new lifestyle or diet/workout routine.

Cited from probodybuilder.com

Get to Know Your Body's Genetic Makeup.

It sounds like an endorsement for your local dating service.

But before we go asking you what your personal preferences are, the tall, dark and handsome or the small, blonde, and petite, there’s one other such word of advice:

Get to know your own type.

While individual differences are always important, physical trainers use a generalized body-typing system to assess individual needs and goals. Regardless or age, race, or gender, you likely fit more or less into one of the following body type categories: ectomorph, mesomorph, or endomorph. These are the three body types that make up the physique in which your body’s genetics are inclined to follow. The conditions of your body type actually have more to do with bone structure and your body’s frame than the muscle tissue itself.

However, there’s one thing we all certainly have in common. We all seem equally unsatisfied with our body types.

The skinny ones want to be beefier. The beefy ones want to be leaner. The bulky ones want to be more ripped while the thin, ripped ones want to be more massive.

One such mistake many body shapers make is to assume that all rules of dieting, exercise, and weight training applies to each and every individual. However, this is not kindergarten. The rules at hand will always vary, depending on your genetic makeup.

Take a look at the three types and determine what your type is and how to deal with the genetic drawbacks.

ECTOMORPH:

This type would seem to consist of every man who ever played in the NBA, minus Charles Barkley and Shaquille O’Neal. Ectomorphs are generally lean and mean but have a hard time packing on the muscle.

Thus, the best way to deal with such stingy genetics is to eat, eat, and eat some more. Adding an extra thousand or two calories is not only acceptable, it’s probably encouraged. Five substantial meals a day, favoring the carbohydrates heavily while consuming ample amounts of protein, is the best way to sprout growth into the muscle mass you’re looking for.

When it comes to the weights, do not be stingy. Intensity plus strength equals size, and you should be churning out intensely productive sets, designed to tear up the muscle tissue and spurt new growth.

ENDOMORPH:

Now, take every offensive and defensive lineman in the NFL (minus nobody) and you’ll have yourself a nice collection of endomorphs.

Endomorphs are generally what most people consider “stocky” creatures, many of them having short but thick, thick limbs and heavy bones. Many endomorphs desire a leaner, more defined look, and should try cutting the fats down to a minimum. Lean protein sources are generally recommended here, anything from fish and turkey to egg whites. Meanwhile, an endomorph’s intake should consist of about seven smaller-portioned meals throughout the day, a sly method of boosting metabolism and burning fats and calories.

Cardiovascular regimens – anything from swimming to biking – is essential for endomorphs looking to trim down. Thirty minutes per day, four days a week, will keep the jelly out of the belly. Meanwhile, weight training should contain sets of several repetitions at a moderate weight, with limited time spent between sets.

MESOMORPH:

Mesomorphs, in one sense, are the luckiest of the three. Mesomorphs have the tendency to be muscular and ripped, maintaining the best attributes of both the ectomorphs and the endomorphs.

Mesomorphs must basically follow the general guidelines of healthy eating and exercise to maintain the desirable physiques that they’re genetics have so kindly blessed them with. A mesomorph should consume a gram of protein a day for every pound of his or her bodyweight, while taking in around six frequent meals per day. Perhaps the most imposing obstacle for the mesomorph is overconfidence. Because a mesomorph can generally build muscle and shed away fat with considerable ease, he often becomes lazy and apathetic to eating binges and lulls in exercise, maintaining faith that his favorable genetics will bail him out of such consequences. Like anyone else, a mesomorph must blend a sturdy diet and solid exercise program into his everyday routine.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Charm&Style

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Yup. I fall into Endomorph.

Intresting thread.

cant go a day without my cardo or else the jelly in ma belly will stack up like cd albums by nelly.


Dr. Dre Out
 

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Ectomorph to the max. Like deus, my body resists bulking up like nobody's buisness.
 

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Alot of people think their ectos, when in reallity they're just skinny mesos who grossly undereat. I was one of them.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Haha i'm no meso in denial, i eat like a whale and nothing happens.
 

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Mesomorphic for the most part, I lose fat easily and gain/keep muscle easy when I put my mind to either. But I'm also lazy, unmotivated and lack self-discipline these days. :D
 

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Warboss Alex said:
Mesomorphic for the most part, I lose fat easily and gain/keep muscle easy when I put my mind to either. But I'm also lazy, unmotivated and lack self-discipline these days. :D
no wonder we get along so well--I think you just described a day in my life :D
 

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Personally I'm a mix between endomorph, mesomorph and ectomorph. I injure my bones/joints like an ectomorph, gain fat weight like an endomorph and look like a mesomorph.

Seriously I think i've injured every major joint in my body. multiple ankle ligament tears , fractured knee, fractured finger, fractured wrist, fractured elbow, tennis elbow, rotator cuff tear in shoulder, and head concussion...now tell me rugby isn't a dangerous sport :)
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I decided to look up further information on these bodytypes, and I found this link extremely interesting
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Somatotype

I meet both the physical and psychological definitions of an ectomorph like nobody's business.
 

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Frink' said:
Alot of people think their ectos, when in reallity they're just skinny mesos who grossly undereat. I was one of them.
Agreed there bro and added with a suger infested diet which makes you look fugly, cut out the sugars and eat like a lion and bam you beast up so fast its amazing aye.
 

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I'm what we call, me. I'm not exactly any particular body type. I'm just me.
 

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Thanks, it's a very interesting topic.

Seeing people around us, I kind of knew that there were genetic differences like these. I'm sure we all know some friend who doesn't do much sports but looks quite muscular without looking fat. This just put everything into perspective with theories.

Personally I'm definitely the ectomorph type, I can eat anything I want, as much as I want, at anytime I want, without gaining any noticeable mass.

From age 23 to 24, I used to eat huge bowls of ice cream every night just before going to sleep:eek: but I won't gain any weight.
Sure I was also running and breakdancing and biking every week, but still...

On the other hand, it's extremely difficult for to gain any mass. My muscles can get much stronger, but they won't get that bigger. Like now, I can easily do 60 "perfect" pushups in a row, but my arms are not much bigger than before. My pecks got more defined, but many people without doing sh*t could have pecks like that just thanks to their genes.

The only advantage I see is that I don't need to worry about what I eat, although I naturally have a healthy diet thanks to healthy culinary habits in the family.
 

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Doing 60 of anything isn't going to make you bigger. Pumpin out endless number of reps is endurance. It like saying "I can run for a mile non-stop, but my 100m dash time isn't going down."
 

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On that note, I have an asian friend from Thailand, who's pretty damn small. Like 5'4 and weighs probably 90lbs. He can--being completely serious here--do 4 sets of 50 pushups in one go. Thats 200 pushups in under 10 minutes...

He's the scrawniest dude ive ever known, but pushups are all about the arm strength:bodyweight ratio.
 
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