“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What's your biggest weakness?

phloyd

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My biggest problem these days seems to be keeping organized. It used to be shyness and overall social skills, but thanks to sosuave thats not so much a problem anymore.

For example, I've got my own house which is a nice bachelor pad, but due to the fact that I work a lot and time for hobbies and trying to go out on dates, it seems I'm never at home long enough to keep on top of everything and my house is a pit!

It is hard for me to get the time to keep things clean and all the laundy done etc.

Does anyone else have this problem? If so how do you deal with it? I find myself cleaning the living room and the closest bathroom if I have a girl coming over, but the rest is just embarresing.
 

WestCoaster

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It's tough

I have the same problem and have tried to remedy it by working a little every other day on cleaning my apt. It's tough with my job, sports and social activities, etc. I have seriously considered hiring a housekeeper once every two weeks, I'm not sure.

I do know it's tough to keep a place spotless. This is one advantage married guys have over us. One of the few advantages! :)

I'm also working on cleaning every Saturday morning before I go out and play tennis, run, go to a college football game, or go downtown.
 

Julian

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My weakness was my overanalytical personality.

Is now?

My weakness would be procrastination. i dunno if thats a weakness, but its not a good characteristic.
 

Knicknack

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Why not just place things where they should go in the first place? I don't leave cans or any trash lying around. i put my clothes in the dirty laundry as soon as they need to be washed. i clean up the dishes. take out the trash.

my biggest weakness is trying TOO hard. i need to relax and let things unwind naturally.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

DarkfalconIV

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People think I'm crazy.....
 

Ronin I

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Interesting thread...

I can think of two - not sure which one is my "biggest" -

1) I can be very stubborn. This can be a blessing too because stubborness can manifest itself as determination in the right circumstances - but sometimes it's just better to let things go.

2) Fluctuating motivational levels - I find it difficult sometimes to stay focused on what I'm trying to achieve and keeping myself motivated to get things done. But this too can also be a blessing because I tend not to stress over things too much and take things too seriously. (The most ambitious, goal-oriented individuals are usually the most high strung).

Anyway, any weakness can be viewed as somewhat of a strength if viewed in the right way.
 

myfriendblu

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LOL Im very moody at times. :D
 
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