"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Whats your batting percentage for ONS?

vorbis

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Curious as to what is your average for getting the lay when you head home with a girl from a pub / club. This includes when you go back to a house afterwards as a group for an after party and you isolate a girl at that party.

Myself, I'm a disappointing .300
Is this a normal percentage (30%)?
I have noticed a common theme with nights where it didn't happen. I have never managed a ONS when I've ended up on a couch with the girl. This happened to me again last weekend. Girls (for me) never want to take off any clothes when sleeping on a couch. Anyone else encounter this problem?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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amoka

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Any girl that comes to my place from the club is a "game on". I have so far had three ONS which i can recall. Two at my place and the other at her place. I don't ever remember bringing a woman home and never escalating. Assume attraction when you bring her to your place.
 

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well, I do try to do that :) Its not by choice. In every case Amoka, I do try for the close. Was more just curious about whether other people are doing a lot better at this than me. For instance, if you see say two girls and two guys head off to a house after a club, you would assume that they're both getting the lay. In my experience, thats often not being the case.
 

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with my experiance every girl that you take back to yours or she invites around to hers is game. you have already set the president by allowing the interaction to escalate to a state where they want to be on there own with you.

2 scenarios

1. at yours.

move the topic towards sex quickley, and start power flirting and use a lot of touch as they become more comfortable. you can folow up witha massage or whatever you think off to highten there senses and want to engage with you physicaly.

2. at hers

a good way i have found is to ask them to takeyou on a tour of there place, 8-9 out of 10 the last place they will takeyou is the bedroom.
once there you just start power flirting. i try to ground myself in this situation by sitting on the bed etc and then yu can move from there.

i have not been at this at all long but this is the experiance that i have had when i was not aware of my game.

i now know why i got laid on those times and why i failed at others.
the problem is the nice guy mentality we all have, not wanting to offend etc.. breaking through that i can see why i sucseeded and why i failed. more times than not a fail.

now its diferent.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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