For Almost a year now it seems whenever im intrested in a girl i pursue her but then once i know she likes me all intrest is lost and i just sorta stop talking to her. I dunno what kind of advice you could give me on this but any is apperciated.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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people usally have the total opposite problem, your lucky.
people usally have the total opposite problem, your lucky.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Not even I just use some advice I have gotten from this forum and my father. Sorta his tips which are really dated mixed with stuff from the site work pretty well. I read this somewhere most likely this site that said the first time a girl sees you she right then and there makes the decision if she would sleep with you. My dad said it’s all up to them(being women) which is semi true, the idea that if a girl likes you she'll let you know and even the smoothest moves won't get her. I personally see that as more of a bonus, if they like you it makes things ton easier, all i do is be charming funny around every girl and it just becomes habit, this does lead to some ugos liking you but I just ignore them or let them down gently. The DJ stuff works great for hooking up and I guess i should just be happy with that but i want something more real as ***** made as it sounds i want a real relationship.
He is not lucky man! I think it's always better to cry for something you have never had than something you have but can't use.In this case our buddy has the charisma but can't use it in a proper way.I had (and partly still have) the same problem and i hope that my advice will help .BBX said:people usally have the total opposite problem, your lucky.
The girls that like me usually don't know me,they just pass by and say "WOW! What a cute and calm guy" , they see only the cover.In your case (i think )you are prepared to see only the cover too,when you read it you feel satisfied and you are not interested anymore. I hardly believe that the girl that can change this situation is a very close friend of yours,a girl you care about and a girl that knows you.