For Almost a year now it seems whenever im intrested in a girl i pursue her but then once i know she likes me all intrest is lost and i just sorta stop talking to her. I dunno what kind of advice you could give me on this but any is apperciated.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
whats wrong with me
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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or gay
people usally have the total opposite problem, your lucky.
people usally have the total opposite problem, your lucky.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Not even I just use some advice I have gotten from this forum and my father. Sorta his tips which are really dated mixed with stuff from the site work pretty well. I read this somewhere most likely this site that said the first time a girl sees you she right then and there makes the decision if she would sleep with you. My dad said it’s all up to them(being women) which is semi true, the idea that if a girl likes you she'll let you know and even the smoothest moves won't get her. I personally see that as more of a bonus, if they like you it makes things ton easier, all i do is be charming funny around every girl and it just becomes habit, this does lead to some ugos liking you but I just ignore them or let them down gently. The DJ stuff works great for hooking up and I guess i should just be happy with that but i want something more real as ***** made as it sounds i want a real relationship.
He is not lucky man! I think it's always better to cry for something you have never had than something you have but can't use.In this case our buddy has the charisma but can't use it in a proper way.I had (and partly still have) the same problem and i hope that my advice will help .BBX said:people usally have the total opposite problem, your lucky.
The girls that like me usually don't know me,they just pass by and say "WOW! What a cute and calm guy" , they see only the cover.In your case (i think )you are prepared to see only the cover too,when you read it you feel satisfied and you are not interested anymore. I hardly believe that the girl that can change this situation is a very close friend of yours,a girl you care about and a girl that knows you.