Hi some girls find me attractive and i can get girls alot of the time. But girls i really want i dont get it seems to be girls i find o.k i get and not the ones i really want like if i get a girl and kiss her or watever then i start to like her more they dont wanna know.. anyone know what my problem is . also i have had a few girls now who are like obsessed with me like they really really like me n tell me im sooo cool n i have so much in common with them and im not like other guys or watever.. but they girls are girls i do not really want id have sex with them or whatever but there not that nice i wanna know why its girls who i meet and dont really like that much who get obsessed with me and girls i do like dont? can some1 help plz..
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whats wrong with me? bad karma?
- Thread starter wildchild
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Unless you're stupid then use proper grammar. I couldnt really understand what the hell you were trying to say, it doesnt make much sense just so ya know.
Cloud-uk
Master Don Juan
usually I don't do the grammar b1tch thing, but this time I am. You cant write that much without FULL STOPS.
sorry i never learned to spell till last year im dyslecsic hehe i still can write only type what i ment to say was. wen i talk to a girl and i dont really like her i end up with her. but if its some1 i like i always fuk up thanks
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
This is giving me a migrane. I dont complain about grammar much either but please, this is horribly. What does being dyslexic have to do with any of this??
Anyway, you probably get nervous and act like an afc around girls you like. Simple....read the bible.
DJ Girevik
Senior Don Juan
Your spelling wouldn't be a problem if you used FULL PUNCTUATION. Read the DJ Bible for your problem, especially the "treat all girls the same" areas.
Joe Schmoe
Senior Don Juan
Youre putting too much pressure on youself with the girls you want. So you are focusing on not screwing up instead of just having fun. This appears like desperation.
Though it is poorly written, I think i get what you mean.
I said that about my self too. The girls that i dont want, i can get. But the girls that i want, i can't get. The problem lies in your attitude towards the girls you want. If you think about it, you probably treat the girls that are 'ok' alittle more casual, and care free, while the girls you want, you'd be more cautious with what you say. I'd say be more playful and act the same with those you want, and you will see success. I still need to try it, and i'm still a DJ in training because i'm a AFC in training.. But i think the problem lies there. Be playful, live life to the fullest.
I said that about my self too. The girls that i dont want, i can get. But the girls that i want, i can't get. The problem lies in your attitude towards the girls you want. If you think about it, you probably treat the girls that are 'ok' alittle more casual, and care free, while the girls you want, you'd be more cautious with what you say. I'd say be more playful and act the same with those you want, and you will see success. I still need to try it, and i'm still a DJ in training because i'm a AFC in training.. But i think the problem lies there. Be playful, live life to the fullest.
thanks for the tips ppl ill try and use better grammer. The other thing i want to know is can i have the link to the bible thing. this girl told her friend i was nice lookin and she works with me now and i asked her for some drawing pins and she said just take the packet n said "whats your name again" that pissed me off that she forgot and i sorta gave her a bad look. do u think this pissed her off and u think if she liked me she would have rememberd my name?
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Who fukin cares, stop analyzing EVERTHING so much and just chill. You NEED to read the bible.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Well then that means its time to stop.
SnatchJP
Senior Don Juan
First of all, for your problem of only getting interest from girls you have no interest in, there's a simple solution. When you're around girls you want, act the same way that you do when you're around girls you don't want.
Now you'll want to analyse everything you do around girls you don't want and try to duplicate that exactly around girls you want.
Don't. Please. It's too much trouble and gives you too many opprotunities to screw up.
Instead, when you're around the hotties, just pretedn that they're average. Perfectly fine people, but no more interesting than those other girls you've attracted so skillfully without even meaning to.
Thats another thing too, if you're feeling down on self confidence, just think about those girls you've already got clawing on your door! I don't care if you're not interested in them, you've already been DJing them (quite skillfully, I might add) without even knowing it! Just follow my advice and watch the mobs of females chasing you grow.
Now you'll want to analyse everything you do around girls you don't want and try to duplicate that exactly around girls you want.
Don't. Please. It's too much trouble and gives you too many opprotunities to screw up.
Instead, when you're around the hotties, just pretedn that they're average. Perfectly fine people, but no more interesting than those other girls you've attracted so skillfully without even meaning to.
Thats another thing too, if you're feeling down on self confidence, just think about those girls you've already got clawing on your door! I don't care if you're not interested in them, you've already been DJing them (quite skillfully, I might add) without even knowing it! Just follow my advice and watch the mobs of females chasing you grow.
thanks snatch man its weird some of the things i did to get the girls who clawed at me were: being disgusting to them like sorta bein rude and kinda big headed but surly nicer looking girls have higher standards than that ? P.S THANKS FOR ALL YOUR HELP
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
DJ Girevik
Senior Don Juan
No. If it worked for "non-hot-babes", it will work for "nicer-looking-girls".