"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What's worse than voice screeching when talking to a woman?

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Time to time you lose the manly voice during a syllable and the voice screeches in high pitch. It is not even a voice, it is some whistling kind of sound, although only for a fraction of a second. I'm sure you can understand what I'm talking about for I have seen it happen sometimes to other men. Is there any way to avoid it? Anything to do with aftermath of cold? Its been several weeks after I had cold.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What's worse you ask? Peeing your pants, passing out, breaking out in an obvious cold sweat, crying, reciting poetry, having a seizure..... I can go on.

The only way I can think of to avoid it (and don't hold me to this) is to stay relaxed. Easier said than done though.

If it's not a chronic problem just don't worry about it. Something embarising happens to everyone every once in awhile. Just don't let it bother you. If you don't make it a bigger deal than it is she won't either.
 

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lying down while you talk works
 
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