What's with these girls - should I avoid this type?

[guywhoneedshelp]

I've had this problem lately. Girls don't seem to want to do anything with a guy unless they are in a relationship.

I've noticed a pattern. First girl I had sex with a few times then all the sudden one day she wouldn't have sex with me. She tells me "I need to be blunt with you. I think I like you"

So in order to keep having sex with her I say "well since you did that to me, I'm not having sex with you next time we have a blockbuster night" (thanks r0cky for this idea) of course, she was all over me in an instant. And, I fvcked her. Few times after that as well.

Then there's this other one. Date 1, dinner. Date 2, movies, Date 3 blockbuster at my house (thx r0cky) we make out after the movie, starts gettin intense, her pulling her head into hers, then she says "I hate you. You're making me horny. That's bad." Keep in mind, this girl gave me head at a party when she was drunk. Yet she wouldn't do sh!t last night.

wtf so I don't beg for it but of course I keep kino going and then she is like "leave my ear alone that's gonna make me horny" so I dunno what this b!tches deal was. She ends up leaving but did stay about 3 hours after the movie ended. Maybe she was on period.

Whatever then there was this other b!tch and she was like "I made out with only 3 guys since I moved here, and I was drunk every time" so I was like "oh so that means I would be the 4th?" and she was like "no lol I'd have to be drunk"

there's just such an awkwardness about these girls I don't know what the hell it is. Now the one that likes me, she comes over and fvcks me all the time, but she likes me which is annoying as hell because she is constantly texting me and basically in her mind probably pretending i'm her boyfriend. and this other one didn't seem to want to reputation of a "*****" by having sex with me yet she was more than willing to have sex while drunk. wtf she did leave the blockbuster movies at my house and she did say she will be coming back to watch the second one so we'll see if I could fvck her then..

I dunno please comment on this issue. I find most girls are still too immature to deal with casual sex and it's pissing me off...

 

[WC2]

This is the common way for women to act. They say one thing and do another. "I hate that guy!" or "I hate that" can just as easily mean "I get wet over that guy" or "I like that". It's a woman's natural defense mechanism to be defensive when they are turned on. It's her attempt to show you she isn't a slut.

Women love when men do things they aren't used to because after all they are so used to having men eat out of the palm of their hand. As soon as a man starts setting himself apart and treating her differently, she may become defensive, but is also turned on.

Oh and when a woman says "Don't do that you're making me horny" it means "Keep doing that and make me hornier."

 

[penkitten]

chicks are taught that if you give away the milk for free too soon, then you will be labeled sluts, *****s and tramps and you will never land a good man.

 

[Warrior74]

men want sex, women want a relationship.

Women these days use sex to get you into a relationship. They are dope dealers....they give you some free samples, hope to get you hooked and then they gotcha! The more of a catch they see you as, the more (and sooner) you will get this.

Now at this point you have options.

You can

a. agree to be her boyfriend.

b. agree to be her boyfriend, but keep your fingers crossed behind your back and date other women. When the sex dries up, who cares? You got a couple of other girlfriends anyway. Branch swing away!

c. Tell her your not ready for something serious. She may have "win you over and change your mind sex" with you for a while but when she sees your not going to change, she'll drop you. Oh and she will probably act like she hates you. I have a couple of these right now.

d. End it at that moment. Next her gently and move on.

e. draw it out as long as possible. avoid serious convo. use jokes and humor and distraction to deflect these attempts to lock you down. play freebird to her often. Spend less time with her unless there is opportunity for sex involved.

It's your choice, the ball is in your court. Just remember this is the norm, finding a great FB is hard to do. The way to a woman's heart is thru her vag so if she's sleeping with you she will catch some feelings for you.


If you want just a FB. You have to treat her like one from day one. Hook up and leave. No movies, no date nights, none of that. You both know why you are there. You are treating her like a girlfriend so she wants to be your girlfriend.

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

Wow I love this web site. We really have a great community here.

I see what you mean. Yea we have had conversations about how much of a s!ut she is, and she always stresses the fact that "I'm not a ho! I don't do randoms" yet this girl is a wild party drunk and does wild things when she's drunk.

I believe for this one from yesterday, she has liked me for awhile. I mean look at how it went down last night. She texts me "so what time we gettin' together" and i'm like "whenever you want I'm at my friends house right down the road." and she's like "ok should I get the movies" so I say "get the movies"

She gets the movies, then texts me again asking me if I want any candy. I say yea I want some raisenettes, then she asks me if I want anything else. She was constantly qualifying herself to me and she even got 2 movies, and we watched 1, and she left both of them at my house. I really should let them rack up late fees but I'm not that evil, I'll let her come back to watch the next one.

I think I might choose option D with this girl if she doesn't put out after the next movie we watch. I chose option C with the other girl and I'm kinda starting to feel bad because she texts me nonstop. Option A is out of the question unless I meet a girl that is absolutely marvelous and there's a lot of chemistry, and option B is ef'd up but I have done that before...

You guys are awesome I have all my friends read this sh!t while we're at work

 

[Effington]

Fine, I'll go there. It sounds like your issue is that you want to have sex with these girls, right? And they say they have to be drunk, right? So...feed her alcohol. Don't tell her you're trying to get her drunk, just casually mention "a drink". Make sure to refill her glass...after a couple, she'll use the drunk excuse and it's game on.