"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What's with teenager girls looking older men???

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Why do teenager girls act like this when they see older guys:

a) pssst pssst you there or whistling or saying you are cute when you pass near them
b) smile and giggle with each other
c) don't care about guys their age
d) do things to attract attention

I've passed trough some of those experiences recently and it felt good in one hand and bad on the other hand.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ol'BlueEyes

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why bad?

They act that way because you carry yourself like a MAN, and they probably don't see that in their high school pool of guys.

Why do you feel good on one hand and bad on the other? Why feel bad at all? Don't apologize for attracting girls' attention.
 

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1) Maturity
2) Know how to f*ck
3) Money
4) Status
 
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We exude confidence and masculinity!!
 

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Alot of teens are in that stage of mind where they think they can get any guy they want just because they are female.

So while they may not be interested in older men, they have sort of conquered seducing younger guys, and are pushing their envelope to see if they can also seduce and attract older men.

I get that alot, Im 28 and when Im shopping at a mall, I always get a group of teens making remarks like "Nice ass" or "hey hotstuff"

Its also flirting practice for them and to show off to their other girl friends who is the aggressive alpha female.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i felt good because my ego and confidence boosted and bad because my conscience told me that they are too young for me, and things between a 17 or 18 years old girl and a 27 years old guy would never work ( here in Portugal the legal age is 16 ). When i was 22 i dated a girl who was 15, i became too attached to her and she dumped me, now i'm in a dillema, older woman just don't do it for me because i feel very young inside and that is noticed in the ouside, and i don't think a older woman would like someone as imature as i am ( despite of being a good and responsible professional when it comes to jobs ) and because most of time they're damaged goods.

Girls between 23-27 also seem so unappealing, they want a boyfriend and frankly guys i'm not prepared to commit, not right now, because when i was a teenager i haven't done what i wanted to, now i wanna live my own way, i can't stand pressures, girls caling me all the time, wanting me to take them home when i'm not in the mood. i don't know, maybe like i said in a previous post i'm not a easy person to deal with. Younger girls seem to have something special, dont get me wrong, i'm not a pedophyle or rapist ( a girl that is less than 16/17 just don't do it for me both physical and mentally ), i'm just talking about the energy, the crazyness, the i dont give a **** to responsabilities attitude,those things seduce me in a way i can't even compreend myself.

That's why i feel so fustrated about myself, i can't go back in time, when i was in HS and also i can't hang around these girls because my age and my conscience dont let me to.
 
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Are you telling us that you did not pursue women in the past and you now regret it and are making up for lost time?

Women reach their physical peak in beauty at 16 years of age and start their decline at 21!!!!

Physically, the younger the better, is the rule!!
 

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puertorican_lover bingo. i was a loser at the time, a real AFC, but thanks to this page even though i dont mack much girls, i've open my eyes and awaken to life. now it's to my consciouness to a) do some fox hunting , b) sit on the sofa and watch tv while doing hand jobs or c) end up with someone i dont like just for the sake of not being alone and saying that i have a girl friend.
 

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it's definitely maturity and the fact that older guys do have a more solid future ahead of them...their future is just about set.

when i go to the pool hall, i see these h.s. kids playing pool.
guys + boys together. the guys act like total dumbasses and scream shout..etc....the gi rls do it too...
but the guys definitely act more immature than they do.

there are guys my age to still act immature...

just seeing them like this disgusts me and makes me wonder, "was i ever like that in h.s.?" probably not.

probably the main reason that theyre into older guys is cuz they got their sh#t together.
 

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It's mostly about status with peers. The bad feeling might come from the idea that this is only a reaction from impressionable, status hungry, teenie-boppers who are usually impressed enough by the idea that you have a car and a place of your own.

When I was in HS, I dated a college girl with a new car and a cool pad. I didn't date her because she was older, more mature, or had a brighter future. I was bangin her for the ride, an unsupervised place to chill and the bragging rights.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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their dad's molested them at a young age and are looking for older men's acceptance
 
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