"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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whats with my personality??

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i have friends, im not the loser at school. i have alot of aquantices but no actual friends. i mean i have afew here and there but nothin too exciting. today i was at this kids house for a lilbit and i was just sittin there chillin and i heard the two kids talking about all this stuff and the 3rd would jump in once a while. but when i tried no1 listened or they wer just like..."uh yea k". i cant keep a convorsation with most people. i get the popular kids to talk to me but never nothin too much or anything. theres this kid i knew in 7th 8th 9th and 10th grade. in 7th and 8th he was in a catholic school. was like my best friend and ****. in 9th we both got into poker in a big group for awile. towards the end of the year and into 10 i got ribbed on alot by this group.so i started to leave them and et these new people from a diff school. recently i started hangin out with that kid again and he ribs on me all the time. and evry1 laughes makes me feel like **** cuz i dont have no good comebacks and im not creative. ill say somethin and evry1 would be like "good one". it seems like the people are there but i just cant make friends with them. anyone have any tips on trying to change my personality or somethin? thanks.
 

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wow i dont like the way i worded that. What I am trying to say is that I bascally need tips on conversation skills. I also need some advice on when to talk and when not to. I hate being shot down with a blank stare or a "good one".
 
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i think you worded it perfectly originally. i know the feeling, and that you get really nervous to say anything which makes it much worse.

what i have done, rightfully or wrongfully, have basically stolen the personality of paul mccartney. sounds strange, but im a beatles fanatic and watch alot of anthology etc you know interviews press conferences concerts that shiit. i started to pick up his charm, and now i use it on people and its not even like its "me"...which really seperates me from fear of rejection. i get my mind in a witty mood and am not scared of being rejected...i mean theyre kinda rejecting someone else...and the results are fantastic.

of course that maybe musician adoration at an unhealthy peak. i'll let you all decide, while i keep doing it.
 
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