“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Whats with all the Ayn Rand/Atlas Shrugged Names?

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Hank Rearden?
John Galt?
Howard Roark?
Francisco D'Anconia?

Seems like alot of users here like Ayn Rand. Can anyone draw conclusions as to why Randroids are drawn to sites like these?
 

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Ayn Rand was all about taking responsibility for your life and her books were all about living to your highest ideal, and in her mind what the ideal free/captain of his own ship man was like.

I have several of her books. Haven't read Atlas Shrugged yet, which is probably the most famous one.

I can't explain it, but I "get it".
 

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What a shame, cause Atlas Shrugged sucks
 

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I am a big rand fan myself, just seems strange that so many end up here, hah
 

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dap said:
I am a big rand fan myself, just seems strange that so many end up here, hah
Eh... Who's John Galt....
 

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They're not insecure boys, who are looking for validation from others (whether it be in the form of a quick lay, or bragging to others). They know who they are and they know their passions in life and pursue them regardless, or even in spite of, what others may think of them. Only the best that mankind has to offer mange to achieve the passion, integrity, and clarity of mind that these characters posses; they're truely the ideal to strive for, they're the essence of what it is to be Don Juan.
 

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Howard Roark said:
They're not insecure boys, who are looking for validation from others (whether it be in the form of a quick lay, or bragging to others). They know who they are and they know their passions in life and pursue them regardless, or even in spite of, what others may think of them. Only the best that mankind has to offer mange to achieve the passion, integrity, and clarity of mind that these characters posses; they're truely the ideal to strive for, they're the essence of what it is to be Don Juan.
You're right, you're the one who did some work for a HB9 at her house, said you would come back later and finish it, instead sent some AFC to do it for you, to disappoint her. Only then did you go back and force yourself onto her later that night. That's alpha right there.

and Francisco, I do hope you get over your oneitis and go after one of those HBs you are always around.
 

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Howard Roark said:
They're not insecure boys, who are looking for validation from others (whether it be in the form of a quick lay, or bragging to others). They know who they are and they know their passions in life and pursue them regardless, or even in spite of, what others may think of them. Only the best that mankind has to offer mange to achieve the passion, integrity, and clarity of mind that these characters posses; they're truely the ideal to strive for, they're the essence of what it is to be Don Juan.
I agree, but I think you are missing one point. I do think that if people follow Rand too closely, they tend to become too inflexible and humorless, like a Howard Roark Robot. This might lead to problems with girls. However, Randians (a group that I might include myself in) take personal responsibility for their shortcomings, so they end up at a self improvement site (like this).
 

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Well, look at the join dates. Franscisco has been here longer than the internet.

On the other hand, ever one of those other users is obviously the same guy:

Hank Rearden?
John Galt?
Howard Roark?
Ragnar D. is another.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Phyzzle said:
Well, look at the join dates. Franscisco has been here longer than the internet.

On the other hand, ever one of those other users is obviously the same guy:



Ragnar D. is another.
Holy don juaners - Francisco is John Galt thus Francisco is a VIRGIN!!!!

He admmited his vigrinity through his other ego - Franscio - tell us the truth - you don't have to have shame - being a virgin is good!............................
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....................for a woman:rolleyes:
 

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Phyzzle said:
Well, look at the join dates. Franscisco has been here longer than the internet...
That's because I created it. Al Gore works for me. ;)

And yes, their join dates are their giveaways. I do remember a John Galt 2 on the site a year or so ago.
 

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Phyzzle said:
Well, look at the join dates. Franscisco has been here longer than the internet.

On the other hand, ever one of those other users is obviously the same guy:



Ragnar D. is another.
I'm a different person.
 

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Holy don juaners - Francisco is John Galt thus Francisco is a VIRGIN!!!!

He admmited his vigrinity through his other ego - Franscio - tell us the truth - you don't have to have shame - being a virgin is good!............................
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....................for a woman:rolleyes:
The d'Anconia has no need for alter egos.
 

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Thanks dap, for highlighting a couple of your alter-egos.

You may assume you are independent, but did you:

1. Fix that pothole on the road? No the government did, that means you depend on them.
2. Refined and drilled for your own petroleum fuel? No a large company did, that means you depend on them.
3. Got on the internet by yourself? No, a company provided that service.
4. You broke your leg, so you need surgery? Yeah, try explaning individualism helped you fix your leg when the hospital really did that.
5. You design a project, you validly assume this is your own true creation. Sorry buddy, here's the irony..without others that YOU DEPEND on you wouldn't know if your creation was of any worth. If I built a car made out of paper, I'd be a very stupid person to say this is a creative and originally built car.

And here's another thing. dap = several of the users alter-egos announced.
 

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I'm not sure what you mean by "alter-egos."

And, as far as your list of five ways I depend on other people i say: great. your point?

Indepence is not about going it alone, its about making your own decisions.
 
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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Nevertheless, people seem to be hellbent on associating you with everyone and their mother. I remember somebody actually went so far as to say that you and I were the same person! Heh. Next thing you know, people will be saying that you're God_of_getting_layed.
Are you trying to give people ideas? :woo:
 
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