"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What's up with you guys man AMOGing for a female?

women haze

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How do you deal with it when fellas try to AMOG you just for talking to a girl?

For example : I work with clients in the Government face to face for logistical support etc, and there are beautiful professional women up in here.

anyways, I am passing along some documents for a system setup to one of the employees right. My Radar went off because I saw her guest sitting on the side right next to her with a visitor's badge.

Probably her Husband/Bf whatever...so anyways
I pass along the documents to her, and Ofcourse HE SAYS SOMETHING....just because I ask if she needed any additional assistance...

A Joke, Snide comment whatever...basically along the lines of "We don't need you I got it"

So I was like "Look you're in good hands already " and she started laughing..

and I was outta there..I hate that feeling.

Anyways Why do you fellas feel the need to always open your mouthes trying to AMOG when it's not needed? is the ***** that good?

If you experience stupid stuff like this how do you handle it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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st_99

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if that is in fact what was going on then i would chalk it up to insecurity pretty much.

It happened to me recently, I was the life of the party, innocent flirting, etc. and guys had to make it be known that was their girl. I think its funny, as if that makes any difference on whether you will get dumped or cheated on, it can only hurt you. Its basically meaningless and entertaining.
 

I'm in the Mood

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Lol you could have had some fun screwing with the guy, but I think one of the best ways to avoid AMOGing is to include the guy in your interaction. See, you were directing yourself toward the girl (which is ok), but the guy probably felt like his presence was being somewhat ignored. I'm not sure what your intentions with the girl was, but if she's an employee, it doesn't matter either way. You'll see her again. ;)
 

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I get it often, just talking to some guys girl.

Often they go straight up and kiss them, right there in front of me. Its strange, but I usually just think that they feel threatened by me (even though Im just TALKING to her, not even kino or anything like that).

One thing that works is looking the girl in the eye and smirking while raising a eyebrows and almost sigh, but not a real sigh. Almost telling her that you feel sorry for her for having a protective and weak BF. Usually makes her giggle. It is a really cheeky move though, so it depends on what kind of person you are. It might not be the most tactical move if you want to befriend the guy!

Another option is just putting your hand out, and be real friendly to the guy; play with your cards open, you arent, after all, trying to get in her panties. And it often turns out really positive as you disarm yourself!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Law 42 ​
Strike the Shepherd and the Sheep will Scatter ​
Trouble can often be traced to a single strong individual – the stirrer, the arrogant underling, the poisoned of goodwill. If you allow such people room to operate, others will succumb to their influence. Do not wait for the troubles they cause to multiply, do not try to negotiate with them – they are irredeemable. Neutralize their influence by isolating or banishing them. Strike at the source of the trouble and the sheep will scatter.
isolate and nutrualize him. that simple.

basically, and i learned this in my club hopping/bar days, when you run into a guy like that, you have to treat him just like you would treat a 200 pound ****block girl. give all your attention to him, and figure out a way to make it be known, directly to him and indirectly to her that you are on a different level than this cat. Once he gets the point, you can then proceed.
 
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