What's up with this chick?

[KingRich]

Quick rundown of the situation....

Picked up a decent looking girl at a club about a month ago, and ended up at her place for the night for a crazy round of sex. I stay the night, and I don't call her as I'm thinking it's a one night stand.

About a month later, I run into her at the same club and she's with a stagette party. So she asks "why haven't you called"? To which I reply, I didn't really think you wanted me to. I actually DID want to call her so I promised I would. I leave for the night. I call her 5 days later and she returns my call the next day and leaves a message. I call back 3 days later, talk for 20mins and set the date and I get off the phone.

The date goes good, and I ended up bringing her back to my pad for another good round of sex and she stays the night.

I call her 3 days later and set up another date. Once again, the night ends up at her place and the usual happens. I then call her 3 days later and we speak for 20 mins. I get off the phone first, and tell her to call me when she gets back from a wedding she was going away for on the weekend. Sunday comes, no call. .... So I call the Wednesday as I'm getting a bit pissed off at this bird. I leave a message to call back.....still, no call....

WTF is up with this? Is this some sort of test? This bird seemed pretty solid up until this week....she never seemed to want to get off the phone, always accepted my dates and returned my calls up until now.

Although I dig this chick, I am planning on deep sixing this broad if I do not hear back from her in a couple more days.

What's the deal with this? :cuss:

 

[Pimp-sicle]

You should always be leading bro!! It was a bad move when you told her to call you because girls are sooo unpredictable. I realize that you have slept with her a handful of times already and normally most girls would call back at this point, but that just goes to show you that she might have only seen you as a fuvk buddy while you saw her as something more.

I think you set this up for disaster when you saw her again at the club and she asked you why you never called. Your response was very weak and in a sense conveyed that you think she's better than you. I know you didn't mean it like that but I'm just trying to tell you how most girls would interpret your response of "I didn't think you wanted me too."

In either case you should definitely NEXT her at this point. If she calls again don't answer because it will clearly tell her that she can disrespect you and still get away with it. Take this as a lesson for next time, you pounded her so it wasn't a total loss.



PIMP

 

[KingRich]

Thanks for your thoughts Pimp....

Funny thing is, this chick actually called before when she said she would....

Another variable here is that she's 26 and was with some dude for 8 years and they broke up about 8 months ago....So I guess that would mean she was with him since she was 18...perhaps she went back to buddy after going to a wedding?

Anyway, who the fvck knows at this point....I thought I had this one in the bag, but you're right at least I railed her pretty good....

 

[flexion_]

Well at this point just let it be - she'll be intouch if she wants sex again. I wouldn't think anything more of it.

 

[Wiesman44]

maybe she's just gotten to know you and realized you're not the type of person she wants to be seeing. nothing against u, it just seems that she had an adequate amount of time to decide whether to keep it up or dump u, and it looks like she dumped u.

sorry man.