"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What's up with these google ads on SS?

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Paradox

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I believe that the ads are automatically supplied to the site according to certain keywords and site criteria.

Each click goes to support this site to keep it running.
 

KontrollerX

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Maxtro gave the best answer.

Firefox combined with Adblock Plus are pretty much requirements to have a sane and happy Sosuave browsing experience. :p
 

Sly6699

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haha i was about to rush in and say what maxtro said.

Firefox with the add-on "Adblock Plus" lets you browse almost all websites in peace
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Bat

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Oh, I didn't know that you could disable them. Thanks for the tip, guys.

If clicking on it generates revenue, then I'll click it every now and then. It's still funny though to see an ad about mail order bride on a seduction forum. Ironic! :crackup:
 

Rollo Tomassi

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Don't forget the Christian Singles banner ad. I had no idea bra-less porn star blondes like this girl came in 'christian'. No wonder those guys are so sexually frustrated,...


And I love that chode in the Asian mail order wife ad. "She's into me man, can't you see she's into me?"
 

Hughman

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Firefox is the bomb.

Obviously the ads we have show up because 'girl', 'woman', 'girlfriend', 'relationship' are a common keyword.
 
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