"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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whats up with the rare few girls that give you a *****y reply when ya talk to them

whosthat

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ive only had it happen 2x now that when i approached a girl in a friendly matter trying to just spark up some short convo. one girl actaully immeditaly gave me the hand to the face and walked on that was the worst i ever had, i didnt do or say anything direspectful at all, just a straight up *****. one other girl i tried talking to it was just her tone and body language that was basiclly saying why the F are you trying to talk to me. of course the major percent of girls are nice about it and send you along but what gives with the 2 encouterss i had, i mean did there dad not each em any manners, do they not realize that when your mean to other people they might be the type of person to retaliate against them. i mean im just all about the peace and not trying to have beef with anyone and im a guy, when your a girl i would think you would be extra nice to people.

whats the worst shot down youv ever had? has anyone ever had worse then a hand to the face, and i mean not in my face she just kinda flicked her hand up and walked off
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thane_Blackwood

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Hey man that's just a given. There are lots of women like that, maybe they just weren't interested or had a ****ty day?
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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I don't know what type of answer you're looking for. Some women are just plain *****es because society allows them to be. They can act like brats and have a bunch of manginas and white knights race to their rescue when they sign cheques that their asses can't handle.
 

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Time to use a "dis-connector".... Read "how to be the bad boy that women love" by ron louis &david copeland....

The books has lots of examples.

This isn't some series of magic spells though, only means you're callin' her out on her attitude.

At times it works, at times it doesn't.
 

dutchmaster

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Happens a lot lol, you never know what's going through her head before you came up to her. She could have just been dumped by her boyfriend earlier that day, on her period, something else happened that's bad etc.

Was signing out of my dorm today some cute girl walked in I said "oh hey whats your name" she just turned her head away and kept walking. I didn't let it bother me. You just have to brush it off like it never happened, who cares. At least you tried talking to her and know she wasn't interested. Better than kicking yourself for letting her slip by.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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djokovic77

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just move on...another one bites the dust...back to the middle and around again. You get the picture!
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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dutchmaster said:
Happens a lot lol, you never know what's going through her head before you came up to her. She could have just been dumped by her boyfriend earlier that day, on her period, something else happened that's bad etc.

Was signing out of my dorm today some cute girl walked in I said "oh hey whats your name" she just turned her head away and kept walking. I didn't let it bother me. You just have to brush it off like it never happened, who cares. At least you tried talking to her and know she wasn't interested. Better than kicking yourself for letting her slip by.
I spot b1tches like that a mile away. I don't say a word, I never approach and I never kick myself for it. The only girls I get rejected by are the nice ones who are just not attracted to me.

I learned my lesson a long time ago. I would rather get rejected by 1000 nice girls who just aren't attracted to me than give one b1tch like the one you mentioned the satisfaction of being a brat to another guy again. So I taught myself how to filter through the b1tches just by some observational skills.
 
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