"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's up with the obsession with women and wine all of a sudden?

Robert28

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Is this a new thing or have women always been obsessed with wine? Maybe I just never paid attention but lately I'm noticing they are flat out OBSESSED with it. Me, I've never been a big wine drinker. I'm a beer man. I hear alot of women talk about how they like a guy that knows wine and blah, blah, blah. They post pics of wine glasses, wine bottles, them drinking wine, them holding wine, them going to wine tasting, you name it.

I wonder if guys started doing the same about beer if we would be labeled as lushes and drunks and partyers that refuse to grow up?lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheCWord

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Are you mid 20s? That's kind of when everyone, women and men alike, start becoming more interested in wine than beer. So your peers may just be at that stage of life.
 

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Some people think it's inherently classy and sophisticated to drink, know about and enjoy wine, and women want to be those things. Definitely not a new thing though.
 

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Actually, being a beer connoisseur is a "thing" now, too.

Knowing wine inside out is another way for chicks to tell themselves that they are sophisticated. It is in the same category as being well-traveled, only a good deal cheaper.

In any case, if you want to know about wine, go for it. It will be a DHV to a lot of chicks. Me? I am not much of a wine dude, but I have gotten to know my ****tails a good deal better. My go-to drink when I am out is an old-fashioned.
 

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it's all stupid. Alchohol is POISON, so they dilute it and flavor it and act all snobbish about it, but you're still a moron if you imbibe it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Its all a part of the pretentious, "fabulous", stylish, "I'm a big deal", yuppie culture.

Modern women believe that as long as they buy the right brand names, shop at Whole Foods, and drink wine.. they are "classy" be default.. no matter how many c0cks they've sucked. :yes:
 

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PlayHer Man said:
Its all a part of the pretentious, "fabulous", stylish, "I'm a big deal", yuppie culture.

Modern women believe that as long as they buy the right brand names, shop at Whole Foods, and drink wine.. they are "classy" be default.. no matter how many c0cks they've sucked. :yes:
Do you ever stop with the little nuggets of wisdon? SRS.:yes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PlayHer Man said:
Its all a part of the pretentious, "fabulous", stylish, "I'm a big deal", yuppie culture.

Modern women believe that as long as they buy the right brand names, shop at Whole Foods, and drink wine.. they are "classy" be default.. no matter how many c0cks they've sucked. :yes:
^This. It's a snob appeal sort of thing.
 

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There are two wine bars very near my house, where you can buy cards and sample wines like vending machines.

I can't tell you how easy it is to get a "classy" b!tch drunk there.
 

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Wine is nasty. Beer is good, liquor is better (whiskey, rum, vodka, in that order). But yes I've noticed this and I simply do not understand it. I mean, I do get the fact that they think it makes them look more classy/sophisticated, but I still don't get it.
 

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Women develop a sudden appreciation of wine when they notice that all their dildos have become too small for some reason.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
This. I'm very familiar with real wine culture, but when you see the town slvt holding up a $5 bottle of wine thinking she's sophisticated....lol.

To answer the OP, yes its a new thing. At least for low class chicks.
shiit man, Its nothing new.

Youve only started noticing this stuff doesnt mean its not been happening for years and years.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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In my experience they get into wine in their late 20's early 30's.
 

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PlayHer Man said:
Its all a part of the pretentious, "fabulous", stylish, "I'm a big deal", yuppie culture.

Modern women believe that as long as they buy the right brand names, shop at Whole Foods, and drink wine.. they are "classy" be default.. no matter how many c0cks they've sucked. :yes:

Yep. And they believe their shıt stops stinkin the more expensive the wine is.
 

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Wine is great....i always get the cheapest one that tastes decent, though hahaha.....i could care less about brands and crap like that

The good thing about women liking wine is it is a great way to have drinks with a woman who isn't really into partying in general but likes to settle down with a glass of wine occasionally...for the partiers i drink beer or mixed drinks with them...but really wine is good...i love walking on the beach with a bottle of cheap red wine...
 
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