"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What's up with girls and yoga pants these days?

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I work in a mall and man, the amount of girls that walk through everyday in these ridiculous, sheer, see through, booty hugging black yoga pants is ridiculous. I'm not complaining though. I mean some of these girls, you can literally see their butts through them, I'm like why bother even wearing anything?

The only downside though is when you see these older late 40s women who still think they've "got it"...yuck. Blech. Makes me want to throw up. There should be mandatory law. If you're over this certain age, you shouldn't wear yoga pants or you'll be subject to fine and possible jail time. Just kidding but yeah, gross.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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thatfeel

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Because sexuality has been sensationalized through clothing, mass media, pop culture, etc.
 

cgr68311

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lol why you bring these topics that remind me of my ex goddam it lol
 

VladPatton

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They better be equipped to wear them, for the pant of the yoga reveals all and tells no lies!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Peaks&Valleys

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I'm not sure, but I hope it's a trend that sticks around.
 

abe0

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I do not mind if they are over 40 and in good shape. What I mind is the ones that are over 180lbs thinking they wt 110lbs!!!! That should be outlawed!!!! Abe
 

Peaks&Valleys

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Never thought I'd be on a men's forum where they're complaining about yoga pants. :crazy:

True, some women that wear them shouldn't. But all you're really getting is a brief glimps, then you can look away. No big deal. The "benefits" clearly outweigh the harm. You want to see a sight, go down to a big city (where it's semi warm) on a Saturday morning, grab yourself a cup of coffee, and behold the spectacle of women (who should be wearing them) showing of their stuff.... glorious.
 

foreverAFC

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more women should wear them because they show you exactly whats going on, there were a few women at work who i thought were attractive until they wore pants like that and i saw that their ass and legs were a total wreck
 

Poop1337

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I'm still thinking about this girl I saw in the mall with a group of friends. OMG her ass so nice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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