"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What's up with boyfriend 5hit??

amoka

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As some of you may know, I have been out of the game for a while now... But have now decided, again, to come back. Anyway, here you go...

I met chick on the dance floor last wednesday, got her number and decided to send her a message on saturday.
Amoka: "Club x 2nite" (different place)
HB: "Who is this"?
Amoka: "Who else could it be? Do you give your number indiscriminatingly?" No response from her. I take it if she is interested she will respond so I did not text her back. Now, lets fast forward to today.
HB: "I still need to know who this is plez?"
Amoka: Three hours later..."Only if you remember how to dig it at the X dance floor"
HB: "Huh"?
Amoka: "Stacie?"
Stacie: " YES.."
Amoka: This is where I believe I went wrong ( Have been out of the game in a long time...) "Alright, I am the guy that showed you a great time @ the X(place) the other day"
Stacie: "Well, it really doesn't matter. My boyfriend wouldn't like it anyway"...look how this woman brought up the boyfriend thing already. She was grinding on me at the club like a mull. The funny thing was the woman she came there with was the one I danced with several weeks earlier and got her number also but simply do not remember her name....
Amoka:"lol... happy bidding". Lame response, I know. I don't even have a clue what the heck I sent her. Anyway, she never responded... I don't expect her to respond now... at least not anytime soon.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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When she asked you who it was you should have just answered it straight no games, when she mentioned her boyfriend you could have told her,"well, he should have been at the club to watch you dancing with me then"
 

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djprophet said:
When she asked you who it was you should have just answered it straight no games, when she mentioned her boyfriend you could have told her,"well, he should have been at the club to watch you dancing with me then"

THIS!!!
 

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Agreed. I tried playing the "guess who" or "you should know who this is" part with women years ago, and all it did was get me rejected.

Welcome to the rust removal program :)
 

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Yeah, I think being forward with the chicks is the way to go now... No more "game"...lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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